Lucious Foxxiehttp://open.salon.com/user.php?uid=244162Tue, 21 May 2013 14:05:52 -0400 <p>Q: It kinda bugs me when people assume I'm straight when I tell them I'm gay people always say fagget. Even my mom says it what should I do? ------------------------------------------------------------ A: Well if people assume your straight this isn't necessarily a bad thing. Sometimes in certain situations your better off when people assume your straight v. being gay. Some people don't like the LGBT community and want to harm or worse kill us. As for people who call you fagget do not let that provoke you in any way. This even includes your mother. Having a mother who does not understand or accepts your sexuality is not easy. Take what your mother says for what it is WORDS. Words could never affect or define who you are they can always be changed. Do not let your mothers words affect you in any way try your best to let it go. In the long run your mother will have to come to terms with these words and she will be carrying them on her shoulder. Stay strong and remain positive!</p> http://open.salon.com/blog/theluciousfoxxie/2011/06/15/ask_foxxie_mother_calls_me_faggothttp://open.salon.com/blog/theluciousfoxxie/2011/06/15/ask_foxxie_mother_calls_me_faggotThu, 16 Jun 2011 02:06:20 -0400 <p>Q: My bestfriend is straight an I have a major crush on him, but I'm sure he's not going to feel the same way, but with that said he is very sweet and considerate of my feelings. I told him these feelings yesterday and he didn't take it well, and said that I should have kept that to myself. Now I'm scared I ruin my friendship, do you think so? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- A: It's hard to tell if you're friendship has been "ruined". I'm glad you expressed yourself to him, but you have to realize that was a lot for him to handle. This doesn't necessarily mean your friend is uncomfortable he just needs some time to think give him a few days before you speak to him. I looked up some different peoples opinion on this matter and I came across this guy who is in the same position as you. He said the best thing to do is not linger on these thoughts. His straight crush told him he wasn't interested in knowing about these feelings. It took a few days until his friend started talking to him again. In my situation I myself have told two straight friends of mine about my feelings. Honestly, the first one ended up never speaking to me again (he wasn't really the greatest guy anyways), the second friend took it lightly and said "if I were gay I'd want you too, but I'm not" (haha he's great). Bottom line is hope for the best you can't predict what's going to happen. If he is a true friend he will understand and let you know he does/doesn't feel the same way</p> http://open.salon.com/blog/theluciousfoxxie/2011/05/24/ask_foxxie_straight_guy_crush_1http://open.salon.com/blog/theluciousfoxxie/2011/05/24/ask_foxxie_straight_guy_crush_1Tue, 24 May 2011 13:05:41 -0400