Ross Jeffries's Open Salon Blog

Ross, Tear Up That Check!

Wed, 10 Jun 2009 18:06:32 -0400

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As you may know, I offer a very high-quality coaching program for those students smart enough to sign up. Part of that program includes monthly office hours; one Sunday out of each month I open up my cell phone for 90 minutes. The next 90 minutes after that, members can talk to me on live video to video in my Megameeting on-line video conferencing system.

What you are about to read is a post that was made today on the member’s discussion board from a student, reporting how my advice really worked out for him.

Enjoy.

“Last month in the mega meeting, Ross challenged me to do 10 Manny Martian walkups. I wrote out a thousand dollar check to Greenpeace and sent it to him, to seal my commitment to getting over my inability to approach. I had till June 1st.

Ross threatened to kick me off if I didn’t do it, but if I did, I’d be invited to the next SS seminar!

Last night, I did 3 walkups in a 15 minute burst; tonight I did my last 2. It started out much more difficult than I imagined. It seemed like such a simple, stupid exercise, but it was a struggle at first.

I went out several times without making a single approach.

I made sure to transmute my frustration and learn from every outing though, and that was the key to my success! It made it easier to get back out into the field and it showed me that I needed to add in more fun/playful energy.

I reinforced the beliefs almost daily and listened to the mp3s from this site as I drove each day. Stuff I learned:

- It does get easier with practice. Walkup #5 was easier than #1, etc.

- I didn’t have a single negative response. Most were baffled, and asked me to repeat it. They were still baffled after that. I thanked them and walked off, and they still looked baffled, lol.

- I can maintain good eye contact with HBs.

- I increased the number of smiles I do. I feel more relaxed.

- Pre-sarge rituals get better with practice too.

- Post-sarge NYIG is golden. As is keeping a sarge journal.

- No one else in the world cares what I’m up to. When the walkups are over, life goes on, no big deal.

- Ross is brilliant: his learning mindset of focusing on what was done right is such a radically different orientation. It took me a while to warm up to the idea due to cultural conditioning, but once I got it, it changed how I see myself and the world…

Cream of the crop belief that also helped changed my mindset:

“I always start at the very least, from the very best I have done so far.”

I plan on generalizing this belief out to the professional areas of my life.

My next step is to increase my aggressiveness and diminish my hesitation states. It’s very random: tonight I approached the first girl right away, but the second had me hesitating. When I get into that mode, it can take forever. Anyone have any tips for increasing my “just go for it” mentality?

Anyway, that’s it for now, thanks Ross, please rip up my check, and F*** Greenpeace!

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Ok. RJ here again. Wasn’t that great? I really love it when guys get breakthrough results following my advice.

Look at how much this guy has not only changed his actions in the world, but his orientation towards focusing on what he is doing right and how he can continue to get better at it. That’s one hell of a shift from where he was.

Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries

P.S. The Manny The Martian routine goes like this,

“Hi. I just wanted to tell you (pause), my name, is Manny (pause) Martian (extend your hand to shake hers) “What’s your favorite (pause) … flavor (pause) … bowling ball?”

It’s designed to get you off your ass and talking to women and to teach you that you can say the most dumb-ass, nonsense stuff and still get women to talk to you.

If You Liked It, Spread the Word. If You Missed It ...

Thu, 19 Feb 2009 18:02:23 -0500

The response to our launch of www.SpeedSeductionFree.com was so great, that we crashed the servers the first hour!

Over 9,000 of you visited in the first 24 hours.

Now, I have received lots of feedback, both on the blog, and in email, telling me that you guys loved the 5 part Free Course. Many of you are saying how the videos not only cleared up years of confusion around women, but also made Speed Seduction(R) easier to understand, and greatly enhanced your ability to use the tools in my paid courses.

What I would like to ask you to do, if you received benefit from the videos, is please help me spread the word.

Look: I need your help here. So I’m asking for it.

Here is why: in today’s economy, if I am going to survive and thrive as your teacher, I need to offer MASSIVE proof to potential students and clients, before I even think of selling them anything.

If you think about it, it makes sense: it’s the only way any newbie wanting to learn this stuff can tell for sure that a teacher is worthwhile and a system is workable and true, in a sea of frauds, phonies, impersonations and counterfeits.

Here is how you do it in 3 easy steps:

1. Go back to the site again, and click on your favorite video. It really doesn’t matter which one it is.

2. You’ll see several ways to share the video. If you have a blog or website, feel free to grab the embed code and put it right up. Or you’ll see icons for every major social network and social bookmark site. And you will even see a link that makes it easy for you to email friends the video’s URL.

3. Use the method of your choice to spread the word about the video of your choice.

It’s that simple. And as I see more traffic to the site, I will reward you guys by continue to add fresh content, and even host monthly live broadcast video seminars where I discuss a topic that YOU guys vote on and choose.

Listen: I believe in giving value to receive value. Nowadays, with a shrinking economy and a shattered trust in virtually every institution, trust and giving first is swiftly becoming the ONLY “currency” that counts.

Help me spread the word about SS, and I’ll keep spreading the leg-spreading goodies with you, no charge.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If the videos have already convinced you and you are looking for my best course to buy, I recommend the latest and greatest: Speed Seduction 3.0.

When She’s Rude Right Out Of The Chute

Tue, 17 Feb 2009 19:02:06 -0500

One of the things I teach newbies who are looking for ways to meet women wherever they might be is this: “90% of the time, the worst that will happen is nothing will happen”.

If a woman doesn’t happen to like your particular approach or opening, it is very rare indeed for her to get nasty, mean or offensive.

Usually, in these cases, she just won’t respond. She’ll simply ignore you or shrug and give very little by way of an answer.

However, sometimes, on rare occasions, women can have what looks like rude reactions.

I say “looks like” because rude implies it is about you and that she is intending to be hurtful.

I have a rule I follow that enables me to meet women and turn around even the seemingly worst first responses that they have.

Here it is: I seldom take a woman’s first response to me as written in stone. It is almost always a function and reflection of what she is thinking, feeling and believing in that moment, and almost always subject to change.

So even if she does yell, call names, etc, I just view it as having nothing to do with me: after all, she doesn’t even know me.

My first interpretation is that she is having a bad day, has some other problem in life, or she has just encountered a guy who tried out some “negging” from Misery Method or the cocky/funny crap from Double Your Masturbating!

In which case, who could blame her for assuming men are clueless twits until they prove otherwise?

What are your choices if this occurs?

1. Discharge it with humor. “I’m sorry…could you repeat that? I was just thinking about my favorite verse from the Bible.”

2. Call her on it by speaking the truth of it: “Hey….nothing I just said deserves that kind of answer. So whomever you are angry at, it isn’t me. “

Personally, I’m not of a mind to give the gift of my attention to someone who isn’t of a mind to receive it, so nowadays I just shrug and move on.

But do understand it is always your choice in how you respond, when you know the tools of Speed Seduction®.

Peace and Piece,

Ross Jeffries

founder of Speed Seduction(R)