I answered an email from a man that reads my blog.  D told me about his loneliness, and he hinted at his "submissive tendencies" and I called him a few nights ago when I was exhausted from packing and needed a distraction.  I was expecting a shy man, maybe a little… Read full post »

The other night I had a sex dream about a friend of mine named Sam.  It wasn't a graphic dream, more of a vague sensual feeling, like when Aunt Beast held Meg in A Wrinkle in Time, but I knew what it was when I woke up aroused. It was surprising… Read full post »

I answered B's ad on Craigslist.  It said he was "reasonably attractive," an "alpha male" with a secret desire to be a cuckold.   I answered that I was "an older dominant woman with a hot body and gray hair."  I asked him why he was posting in New York City when… Read full post »

He had that silver white hair and white skin that I like, though I could tell by the way our eyes met when we talked that he wasn't tall enough.   He was from Nashville, a book agent on a business trip, and I was flattered when he changed seats to sit next to me. But… Read full post »

Honey B is standing naked, tied up in ropes, with all the men leering at her.  She's the belle of the ball, hoping for a transcendent experience, but in the dungeons it's always the same.  I was afraid to enter at first, until I realized I didn't have to change to suit the… Read full post »

I said that to a man from Craigslist that was looking for somone to cuckold him .  He asked me if I liked to control male orgasms and that was my first reaction.  At first I thought it sounded too angry, the result of a bad day, but one of my subbie-boy… Read full post »

A man said that to me the other night at dinner.  So you're dominant and a sadist... wow, what a package!  The phrasing of the compliment was funny, but so was his lack of irony.  Not exactly the attributes I would have asked for if I had the choice, but I didn't.

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There are two reasons I like blogging so much: I get to say what's on my mind and I don't get ostrasized for being different.  Since I write about needing to inflict pain during sex and other dilemmas of a dominant woman, this interchange makes me feel almost normal; kind of like… Read full post »

I gave in to curiosity and went to English Guy's apartment yesterday after a couple of offers.  Why do I do these things?  It was a ground floor apartment so that his windows were at street level with people's feet walking by outside.  It was all black leather and pop-art prints,… Read full post »

I have a rule, actually I have a few rules all designed to protect myself, but the ninety day rule is the most important.  It came from the Steve Harvey book Act Like a Woman, Think Like a Man and it was designed to protect good girls from being taken advantage of by… Read full post »

I saw Julia and Julie the other day and it inspired me to start this blog.  Julia wrote about a project with a definite purpose and I have one too; I'm going to write about the men I meet from my ad  on Craigslist.  The ad changes from time to time,… Read full post »