Out of My Mind

The Musings of a Woman Who Thinks Too Much

Silkstone

Silkstone
Location
California,
Bio
I'm a writer/editor/consultant who lives in the SF Bay Area with my partner of 10 years, K., the best man I've ever known. I'm seeking representation/publication for an "erotic-neurotic" memoir I've written that traces my quest to find love through any means necessary, from becoming a Christian Fundamentalist to dating hundreds of men through the personal ads. You can email me at "silkstone50@yahoo.com"

Editor’s Pick
NOVEMBER 25, 2009 1:45AM

A Turkey Tale: Seven in the City

 

Turkey at mailbox

 

I hate to put anyone off their feed for Thanksgiving, but it seems the right time to share the heartwarming tale of a wild turkey family of seven that lives in our neighborhood.  Warning:  Baby turkey videos ahead that may melt your heart!

We live in a… Read full post »

 

microphone

 

Blog radio, that is.

I’ve been getting some interesting offers because of my Mad Men commentaries that Kerry and Thomas have so graciously featured on the cover.  The latest was from Shelley Ackerman, an astrologer with a blog radio show cleverly called “Karmic R… Read full post »

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NOVEMBER 9, 2009 6:06AM

Shut the Door, Have a Seat: Mad Men Season 3 Finale

 hotel lunch



Do you want to do this, or not?  ~ Bert to Don


Nothing ends without something else beginning.  In perhaps the most action-packed show of the entire series, the Sterling Cooper agency we’ve known comes to an end in the Season 3 finale of Mad Men, “Shut… Read full post »

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NOVEMBER 5, 2009 2:03PM

Internet Not Socially Isolating, Study Finds

 

computer bc

 

We can all stop worrying about our OS addiction as well as our Facebook obsession and LinkedIn updating compulsion.  A study by the Pew Center, a prestigious nonprofit think tank in Wahington D.C., has concluded that users of the internet and mobile media are not losers, u… Read full post »

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NOVEMBER 2, 2009 6:24AM

The Grown-Ups: Mad Men, Season 3, Episode 12

 tv

 
 
What the hell’s going on? ~ Don

I just want to see what’s going on. ~ Duck
What’s going on? ~ Peggy

My god, what happened?  ~ Peggy

What is going on? – Betty


Well, now we know where Marvin Gaye got the idea.

It’s a cliché that the 19…

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OCTOBER 26, 2009 6:07AM

The Hobo and The Gypsy: Mad Men, Season 3, Episode 11

 the drapers at halloween


What happened, did you get caught? ~ Suzanne

It’s more complicated than that. ~ Don


In Season 1’s brilliant episode of Mad Men, “The Hobo Code,” we learned about Dick Whitman’s childhood by focusing on a time that a hobo visited his father’s Depre… Read full post »

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OCTOBER 19, 2009 5:53AM

The Color Blue: Mad Men, Season 3, Episode 10


Betty and Don


The truth is…People may see things differently, but they don’t really want to. ~ Don
 


Not so fast there, Don.  

Last week people were speculating on how Don would negotiate the coming societal changes and statements like this from him aren’t reassuring.  In "
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OCTOBER 16, 2009 3:41PM

Quaking: Memories of Loma Prieta 20 Years Later

 

Cypress structure

 Portion of Cypress Freeway in Oakland, after collapse.  Photo by USGS

 

I was a minute away from being in the elevator.

On October 17th, 1989, that was approximately my third thought as the 7.1 Loma Prieta earthquake hit while I was walking to the elevators in my downto… Read full post »

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OCTOBER 12, 2009 6:33AM

Wee Small Hours: Mad Men, Season 3, Episode 9

 

Lee & Sal

 

When I say I want the moon, I expect the moon.  ~ Conrad  Hilton

I want what I want when I want...and you don’t care what it does to the rest of us.  Like someone else I know. 
~ Betty about baby Gene, ConradRead full post »
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SEPTEMBER 21, 2009 5:42AM

Guy Walks Into an Advertising Agency: Mad Men, S3 Episode 6

 

Don

 

That’s life. One minute you’re on the top of the world, next minute some secretary is running you over with a lawnmower. ~ Joan to Don


Something’s afoot at Sterling-Cooper.

In the 6th episode of Season 3 of Mad Men, “Guy Walks into an Advertising Agency… Read full post »

SEPTEMBER 18, 2009 5:06PM

When College Kills

 

raymond clark mug shot

 

The death of Yale graduate student Annie Le and the subsequent arrest of Raymond Clark, a co-worker who has been labeled a “control freak” by acquaintances has gotten me thinking about the risk of violence for students at college.

On TV this week, a criminal profileRead full post »

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SEPTEMBER 14, 2009 6:42AM

The Fog: Mad Men Season 3, Episode 5

 Don and Betty with baby



What time is it?  What time isn’t it?  ~ Ken Cosgrove

Well, the good news is …time has stopped.  ~ Don


Liminal states are fascinating.  We float between sleep and wakefulness, between dream and reality, and eventually between life and death.  Hove…

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SEPTEMBER 7, 2009 6:09AM

The Arrangements: Mad Men Season 3, Episode 4

 

Gene and Betty

 

You gotta really pay attention.  ~ Grandpa Gene to Sally


Indeed we do, Gene. These latest episodes are so packed with story, character development, symbolism, revealing dialogue, historical allusions and humor that it’s hard to keep up.   Poor Gene couldn… Read full post »

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AUGUST 31, 2009 5:29AM

Different From The Inside (Mad Men Season 3, Episode 3)

 

Don and Pete

 

Just wait -- all hell’s going to break loose. ~ Grandpa Gene to Sally

Mad Men’s third episode of the third season, “My Old Kentucky Home,” is full of intimations of the changes that are to come, as well as the ones…

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AUGUST 28, 2009 3:06PM

FAIL! Does Media Multi-Tasking Damage Your Brain?


Over the years, I’ve noticed a common finding in research on human behavior:  people thinking that they’re a lot better at something than they really are.  

This optimism seems hard-wired and mostly beneficial, not only getting us through the ordinary difficulties of life, but se… Read full post »

AUGUST 25, 2009 3:24PM

"I Hate To Cook" Salads

When I was growing up in the 1960's, my mother had the popular "I Hate to Cook" cookbook from Peg Bracken.  I have no idea what was in that book, but if it was anything that my mother actually ended up putting on the dinner table, it should have been called… Read full post »

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AUGUST 24, 2009 5:00AM

But She Hasn’t Got THAT (Mad Men Season 3, Episode 2)

Peggy in bar
 
 
If you don’t like what’s being said, change the conversation. ~ Don

And…we’re back.  Back to the Mad Men we love, with an episode so packed with meaningful dialogue and densely woven themes that it’s hard to know where to start.  Aptl/…

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AUGUST 17, 2009 3:35AM

Toto, We're Not in Sterling-Cooper Anymore (Mad Men)

  Don Draper puzzled

 

 "Can you believe this?" ~ Ken Cosgrove

 

Sterling Cooper isn't what it used to be:  The British invasion has arrived ahead of the Beatles (and they brought some ants), they're firing people right and left (but only people we've never seen before and so have… Read full post »

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AUGUST 14, 2009 10:40AM

I Was Peggy Olson

 

Peggy Olson with Selectric

 

With Season 3 of Mad Men starting this Sunday, I’ve been watching Season 2 again and marveling at how rich the show is, the episodes revealing new pleasures and resonances every time you see them.  But then I’ve loved Mad Men from the first minutes of the… Read full post »

 

Sharon Tate

 A pregnant Sharon Tate, not long before she died.

 

40 years ago today, a horrific crime occurred that continues to have reverberations beyond the personal tragedy that it brought to the victims and their families.

Writers such as Joan Didion have identified the night of Au… Read full post »

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AUGUST 3, 2009 8:59PM

Do Blogs Steal Content or Improve News Stories?

If you ever quote news stories here in your blog (as I do), you should take the time to read today's Opinionator blog at the New York Times, titled "Steal This Professionally Reported Content," in which a recent controversy discussed all over traditional media and the blogosophere is dissected in suc… Read full post »

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JULY 30, 2009 2:58PM

Porn for Women: Sex with Context (15 examples)

The pornographic movie industry, in response to the Internet, is focusing even less on narrative arcs these days. Savanna Samson, an actress, says she favors scripts with more dialogue. […] “Getting it on in one hardcore scene after another just isn’t as much fun,” she added.Read full post »

 

Call to arms

 

This weekend brought one of the rituals of our summers:  The annual Scottish Games at the beautiful historic Dunsmuir Hellman Estate in the Oakland hills.

 

Dunsmuir
Dunsmuir House

 

Although the Games are held over a full weekend, compared to other… Read full post »

JULY 14, 2009 12:10AM

For Bastille Day: J'ai Deux Amours

 "J'ai deux amours...mon pays et Paris."

(I have two loves:  My country and Paris.)

 

For a soundtrack to this post, click this video (but scroll on down to my text and pix! Not my pix in the video....)

 

After both studying French for years,… Read full post »

 
 
Death certificate

 

Back in the late 80’s and early 90’s, I was a huge fan of the TV show “thirtysomething,” which chronicled the lives of a Big Chill-ish group of friends (depending on your point of view, either whiny self-absorbed yuppies or people eerily… Read full post »