Out of My Mind
Silkstone
- Location
- California,
- Bio
- I'm a writer/editor/consultant who lives in the SF Bay Area with my partner of 10 years, K., the best man I've ever known. I'm seeking representation/publication for an "erotic-neurotic" memoir I've written that traces my quest to find love through any means necessary, from becoming a Christian Fundamentalist to dating hundreds of men through the personal ads. You can email me at "silkstone50@yahoo.com"
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “I enjoyed it a lot, too.
I was surprised Katie Holmes
could
act, and I adore
Pat…”
3:11PM - “Very few people who will
read her book with pleasure
will be
Scrabble players,
so…”
2:45PM - “Buffy's comment reminds
me that I meant to add...even
though
my body is aging,
I…”
2:43PM - “Very honest essay. I
think the only solace is that
you're not
alone. Everyone
g…”
2:42PM - “Shelley, great to have
you join us at OS! I hope you
pull up
a blog and stay
awh…”
November 27, 2009 06:29PM
Silkstone's Links
- My Mad Men Posts
- Guy Walks (S3:6)
- Shut the Door, Have a Seat (S3 Finale)
- The Grown-Ups (S3:12)
- The Hobo and The Gypsy (S3:11)
- The Color Blue (S3:10)
- Wee Small Hours (S3:9)
- The Fog (S3:5)
- The Arrangements (S3:4)
- Different From the Inside: My Old Kentucky Home (S3:3)
- But She Hasn't Got THAT: Love Among the Ruins (S3:2)
- Toto, We're Not in Sterling Cooper Anymore (Season 3 Premiere)
- I Was Peggy Olson
- God and Advertising - Season 2 Finale
- In a Word: What's a Borderline Rape?
- Some of My Fave Posts
- When College Kills
- I Was Peggy Olson
- California Dreaming: Haunted by the Manson Family
- Porn for Women: Sex with Context
- Death Lite: Famous People Die So We Don't Have To
- Anne Frank, My Hero
- Too Lazy to Masturbate: How Technology Has Screwed Us Up
- The Path to Love
- Spring and Fall
- The Most Romantic Thing
- In a Word: What's a Borderline Rape?
- Get Oprah Yourself
- Frozen Bananas, Deep Fat Fryers, Crappy Showers & Me
- Christians & Condoms
- Sex, Lies & Cellphones
- Movies, Movies, Movies!
- How to Get Feedback on Your Writing
- Out of Affluence
- The Spy I've Loved: Confessions of a Bond Girl
- Why Can't You Just Get Published?
- To Have and To Have Not
- What Makes Women Hot? Uh, Everything, It Seems

I hate to put anyone off their feed for Thanksgiving, but it seems the right time to share the heartwarming tale of a wild turkey family of seven that lives in our neighborhood. Warning: Baby turkey videos ahead that may melt your heart!
We live in a… Read full post »
My Radio Debut! Talkin’ Mad Men, Women & State of the World

Blog radio, that is.
I’ve been getting some interesting offers because of my
Mad Men commentaries that Kerry and Thomas have so
graciously featured on the cover. The latest was from Shelley
Ackerman, an astrologer with a blog radio show cleverly called
“Karmic R… Read full post »

Nothing ends without something else beginning. In perhaps the
most action-packed show of the entire series, the Sterling Cooper
agency we’ve known comes to an end in the Season 3 finale of
Mad Men, “Shut… Read full post »

We can all stop worrying about our OS addiction as well as our Facebook obsession and LinkedIn updating compulsion. A study by the Pew Center, a prestigious nonprofit think tank in Wahington D.C., has concluded that users of the internet and mobile media are not losers, u… Read full post »

I just want to see what’s going on. ~ Duck
What’s going on? ~ Peggy
My god, what happened? ~ Peggy
What is going on? – Betty
Well, now we know where Marvin Gaye got the idea.
It’s a cliché that the 19…

It’s more complicated than that. ~ Don
In Season 1’s brilliant episode of Mad Men,
“The Hobo Code,” we learned about Dick Whitman’s
childhood by focusing on a time that a hobo visited his
father’s Depre… Read full post »

Not so fast there, Don.
Last week people were speculating on how Don would negotiate the
coming societal changes and statements like this from him
aren’t reassuring. In "
… Read full post »

Portion of Cypress Freeway in
Oakland, after collapse. Photo by USGS
I was a minute away from being in the elevator.
On October 17th, 1989, that was approximately my third thought as
the 7.1 Loma Prieta earthquake hit while I was walking to the
elevators in my downto… Read full post »

I want what I want when I want...and you don’t care what it does to the rest of us. Like someone else I know.

Something’s afoot at Sterling-Cooper.
In the 6th episode of Season 3 of Mad Men, “Guy Walks into an
Advertising Agency… Read full post »
When College Kills

The death of Yale graduate student Annie Le and the subsequent arrest of Raymond Clark, a co-worker who has been labeled a “control freak” by acquaintances has gotten me thinking about the risk of violence for students at college.
On TV this week, a criminal profile… Read full post »

Well, the good news is …time has stopped. ~ Don
Liminal states are fascinating. We float between sleep and wakefulness, between dream and reality, and eventually between life and death. Hove…

Indeed we do, Gene. These latest episodes are so packed with story,
character development, symbolism, revealing dialogue, historical
allusions and humor that it’s hard to keep up.
Poor Gene couldn… Read full post »

Mad Men’s third episode of the third season, “My Old Kentucky Home,” is full of intimations of the changes that are to come, as well as the ones…
Over the years, I’ve noticed a common finding in research on
human behavior: people thinking that they’re a lot
better at something than they really are.
This optimism seems hard-wired and mostly beneficial, not only
getting us through the ordinary difficulties of life, but se… Read full post »
"I Hate To Cook" Salads
When I was growing up in the 1960's, my mother had the popular "I Hate to Cook" cookbook from Peg Bracken. I have no idea what was in that book, but if it was anything that my mother actually ended up putting on the dinner table, it should have been called… Read full post »

And…we’re back. Back to the Mad Men we love, with an episode so packed with meaningful dialogue and densely woven themes that it’s hard to know where to start. Aptl/…

"Can you believe this?" ~ Ken Cosgrove
Sterling Cooper isn't what it used to be: The British invasion has arrived ahead of the Beatles (and they brought some ants), they're firing people right and left (but only people we've never seen before and so have… Read full post »

With Season 3 of Mad Men starting this Sunday, I’ve been watching Season 2 again and marveling at how rich the show is, the episodes revealing new pleasures and resonances every time you see them. But then I’ve loved Mad Men from the first minutes of the… Read full post »
California Dreaming: Haunted by the Manson Family

A pregnant Sharon Tate, not long before she died.
40 years ago today, a horrific crime occurred that continues to
have reverberations beyond the personal tragedy that it brought to
the victims and their families.
Writers such as Joan Didion have identified the night of Au… Read full post »
If you ever quote news stories here in your blog (as I do), you should take the time to read today's Opinionator blog at the New York Times, titled "Steal This Professionally Reported Content," in which a recent controversy discussed all over traditional media and the blogosophere is dissected in suc… Read full post »
The pornographic movie industry, in response to the Internet, is focusing even less on narrative arcs these days. Savanna Samson, an actress, says she favors scripts with more dialogue. […] “Getting it on in one hardcore scene after another just isn’t as much fun,” she added.… Read full post »
Kilts, Cabers, Swords & Bagpipes: It’s the Scottish Games!

This weekend brought one of the rituals of our summers: The annual Scottish Games at the beautiful historic Dunsmuir Hellman Estate in the Oakland hills.

Although the Games are held over a full weekend, compared to other… Read full post »
For Bastille Day: J'ai Deux Amours
"J'ai deux amours...mon pays et Paris."
(I have two loves: My country and Paris.)
For a soundtrack to this post, click this video (but scroll on down to my text and pix! Not my pix in the video....)
After both studying French for years,… Read full post »
Death Lite: Famous People Die So We Don’t Have To

Back in the late 80’s and early 90’s, I was a huge fan of the TV show “thirtysomething,” which chronicled the lives of a Big Chill-ish group of friends (depending on your point of view, either whiny self-absorbed yuppies or people eerily… Read full post »
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