Out of My Mind
Nelle Engoron
- Location
- California,
- Birthday
- May 01
- Bio
- You can email me at "Nelle@NelleEngorondotcom" &
follow @NelleEngoron on Twitter.
I'm hosting a live radio show on Monday nights at 6:00 PM PDT to discuss this season of Mad Men. You can listen live (and call in to talk to me if you like) or download the broadcast afterward. For information, go to www.blogtalkradio.com/madmentalk
**My "Mad Men" commentary for last season (Season 5) is on Salon rather than here -- go to http://www.salon.com/writer/
nelle_engoron/ to find all my Salon articles.
**My book, "Mad Men Unmasked: Decoding Season 4," is available on Amazon in both e-book and print versions.**
I'm a writer/editor/consultant who lives in the SF Bay Area. I write about all kinds of things, but am particularly intrigued by movies, relationships, gender issues, belief systems and "Mad Men." (Scroll down left sidebar for links to a selection of my blog posts.) I'm working on two books (a novel and a memoir), neither of which is about Mad Men!
MY RECENT POSTS
- The Quality of Mercy: Mad Men
Season 6, Episode 12
June 17, 2013 06:22PM - Favors: Mad Men Season 6,
Episode 11 (Commentary)
June 10, 2013 06:52PM - A Tale of Two Cities: Mad Men
Season 6, Episode 10
June 03, 2013 06:12PM - The Better Half: Mad Men
Season 6, Episode 9
(Commentary)
May 27, 2013 05:50PM - The Crash: Mad Men Season 6,
Episode 8 (Commentary)
May 20, 2013 03:39PM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “Zanelle, it's hard to
believe Don can keep drinking
as he has
been. It reminds
me…”
2:09PM - “Zanelle, I knew someone
who saw their parents making
love and
thought they were
f…”
June 11, 2013 11:53AM - “And just another plug
that I discuss all of these
things in
further detail when
I…”
June 04, 2013 12:04PM - “Dante, thank you! You
are right and I've corrected
my
commentary
above.
Abra,
Cali…”
June 04, 2013 12:00PM - “Dante, thanks! Someone
else pointed out that I got
that line
wrong, too. It
does…”
May 28, 2013 11:10PM
Nelle Engoron's Links
- My radio show
- Mad Men Talk
- My articles on other sites
- My author page on Salon (with links to many articles published there)
- Mad Men 5:3 recap/commentary
- Mad Men Season 5 premiere
- Mad Men's Year of Change
- What I Learned Waiting for My Prince
- Why I'm Finally Letting Myself Go Gray
- I Became An Adult at 22: Why Can't You?
- What Women Want (Mad Men S4:4)
- Why Mad Men Is Bad for Women
- Imperfect Endings: When Mom Wants to Die
- Avatar vs. Hurt Locker: Battle of the Exes
- Movies, movies, movies
- What's It All About, Harry Brown?
- Editing Out the Hero: The Ghost Writer
- Netflix's Answer to the Universe: Annie Hall
- Breaking the Celluloid Ceiling: Kathryn Bigelow's Triumph
- Who Gets the Oscar in the Divorce?
- Crazy Heart: Don't Let Your Movies Grow Up to Be Cliches
- The Feel Bad Movie of the Year: The Road
- Porn for Women: Sex with Context
- Movie Musings #2: Wrestling with Doubt
- Movies, Movies, Movies!
- Movie Musings #1: Reel People
- People I Know Are in the Movies
- The Spy I've Loved: Confessions of a Bond Girl
- Mad Men writing on OS
- Tomorrowland (Season 4 Finale)
- Blowing Smoke (S4:12)
- Chinese Wall (S4:11)
- Hands and Knees (S4:10)
- The Beautiful Girls (S4:9)
- The Summer Man (S4:8)
- The Suitcase (S4:7)
- Waldorf Stories (S4:6)
- The Chrysanthemum and the Sword (S4:5)
- The Rejected (S4:4)
- The Good News (S4:3)
- Christmas Comes But Once a Year (S4:2)
- Public Relations (S4:1)
- Shut the Door, Have a Seat (Season 3 Finale)
- The Grown-ups (S3:12)
- The Hobo And The Gypsy (S3:11)
- The Color Blue (S3:10)
- Wee Small Hours (S3:9)
- Guy Walks (S3:6)
- The Fog (S3:5)
- The Arrangements (S3:4)
- Different From the Inside: My Old Kentucky Home (S3:3)
- But She Hasn't Got THAT: Love Among the Ruins (S3:2)
- Toto, We're Not in Sterling Cooper Anymore (Season 3 Premiere)
- I Was Peggy Olson
- God and Advertising - Season 2 Finale
- In a Word: What's a Borderline Rape?
- A sampling of other blog posts
- Escaping the Underworld: The Chilean Miners
- I Was an Adult at 22 -- Why Aren't You?
- Curses, Foiled Again! Female Viagra Fails
- My Unfashionable Life
- Up Against the Wall, Granny!
- Sucker Punched: Cheeseballs, Brickbats & Random Violence
- My 10 Most Influential Books
- Olympic Musings
- The Complicated Manifesto
- You Might Be a Lesbian -- And Not Know It!
- A Turkey Tale: Seven in the City
- Quaking: Memories of Loma Prieta
- When College Kills
- I Was Peggy Olson
- California Dreaming: Haunted by the Manson Family
- Death Lite: Famous People Die So We Don't Have To
- Anne Frank, My Hero
- The Path to Love
- Spring and Fall
- The Most Romantic Thing
- Get Oprah Yourself
- Frozen Bananas, Deep Fat Fryers, Crappy Showers & Me
- Christians & Condoms
- Sex, Lies & Cellphones
- How to Get Feedback on Your Writing
- Out of Affluence
- Why Can't You Just Get Published?
- To Have and To Have Not
- My book
- Mad Men Unmasked: Decoding Season 4
The Quality of Mercy: Mad Men Season 6, Episode 12

In its first season, Mad Men glamorized the life of its male characters, who personified early 1960s cool and who seemed to (using a phrase I still get quoted for) "get off… Read full post »
Favors: Mad Men Season 6, Episode 11 (Commentary)

This is the way a generation gap begins: not just with a bang, but also a whimper.
In Mad Men’s latest episode, “Favors,” an exchange of the sexual type of those leads to Don’s downfall as his daughter’s hero, the one who she thinks supports… Read full post »
A Tale of Two Cities: Mad Men Season 6, Episode 10

Last night, Mad Men redressed what some of us have come to see as a growing flaw in the series: trying to depict late 1960s America entirely from the East Coast, when many of the most significant cultural and political changes were occurring in California. After… Read full post »
The Better Half: Mad Men Season 6, Episode 9 (Commentary)

So, is your relationship butter or margarine? What about your life?
According to Don Draper, one is fresh and the other is indestructible. Don, of course, knows all about being fresh, and he also used to seem indestructible. Like James Bond (to which I’ve often compared him),… Read full post »
The Crash: Mad Men Season 6, Episode 8 (Commentary)

“We tell ourselves stories in order to live.”
So begins “The White Album,” Joan Didion’s famous essay conjuring the events and atmosphere of the late 1960s, which she spent living on both the west and east coasts. In L.A., she covers part of the M/… Read full post »
Man with a Plan: Mad Men Season 6, Episode 7 (Commentary)

Writing about the premiere episode of last season’s Mad Men, I covered the “reveal” of Don and Megan’s sexual relationship as follows:
The nature of their erotic relationship only becomes clear towards the end of the episode, however, and… Read full post »
For Immediate Release: Mad Men Season 6, Episode 6
You want me to say what?
If Mad Men didn’t jump the shark last night, it at least jumped the Chaough, which coincidentally turns out to be what Peggy longs to do.… Read full post »
The Flood: Mad Men Season 6, Episode 5 (Commentary)

Come Monday morning, it will all be a dream. ~ Sylvia
The fires of hell that Don’s descending into this season erupted into full flame in last night’s Mad Men episode, which bears the seemingly oxymoronic title, “The Flood.” Ostensibly a quote from Gi… Read full post »
To Have and To Hold: Mad Men Season 6, Episode 4 Commentary

“Which twin has the Toni?”
So asked a famous and long-running ad campaign for Toni home permanent kits, which promised women that a Toni perm was so good that it would fool people into thinking that you had naturally curly hair.
By the 1960s, this sloga… Read full post »
The Collaborators: Mad Men Season 6, Episode 3 (Commentary)

Is there some damage that human beings just can’t recover from?
Last night’s Mad Men episode, “The Collaborators,” answers that question in such a dark fashion that it leaves us little hope for the series’ main characters. As they continue t/… Read full post »
The Doorway: Mad Men Season 6 Premiere (Commentary)

Heaven’s a little morbid. ~ Don pitching to clients and sinking fast
Heaven is a place, the Talking Heads sang, where nothing ever happens. Hawaii, the closest thing we have to it on earth, is a place where everything happens, but you can’t put the experience into wo/… Read full post »
Mad Men fans: Join me on the radio!
I'm excited to announce that I'm starting my own live call-in radio program to discuss this season of the TV show "Mad Men," which I started writing about here back in 2008.
My show will air
Once a Catholic, Always a Catholic
I left the church once I became an adult. So why does it still matter to me?

In Krakow, images of native son Pope John Paul II are everywhere. Here he looks down on passersby from a second story window.
In recent years,… Read full post »
Mad Men fans: Join me over at Salon!
Thanks to all of you who have sent messages saying you hoped I would be writing commentary about Season 5 of "Mad Men," which premieres tonight. I'm happy to say that I will be, but over at "big" Salon. I actually have a pre-season article up on Salon right now, and my commentaries wil… Read full post »

As the final film (Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, Part 2) unspools in Muggle theaters, there will be no real surprises for the fans, who know full well how the saga ends from having read the books (to pieces, in many cases). But even… Read full post »
I spent the summer I turned 21 working as a hotel maid, cleaning up other people’s messes. Having started my work life at age 14 in a frozen banana factory before progressing up the chain of summer jobs to bus girl, waitress and fast food shift supervisor, I was… Read full post »
The color nature gave me (at age 20, in the French Alps)

How I look today, unplugged (early AM, no make up), 30+ years later
In Nicole Holofcener’s recent film, Please Give, a middle-aged woman acidly characterizes her grandmother’s… Read full post »

One of the great pleasures of the Harry Potter movies has been watching the extraordinarily deep bench of British acting talent fill literally mesmerizing roles. At this point, so many of the country’s best-known actors and actresses have appeared in both recurring and one… Read full post »
If you watched the World Series, you no doubt saw a commercial from Microsoft touting their soon-to-be-released Windows smart phone. In it, a slick flurry of scenes depict people so engrossed in their smart phones that they spill drinks, trip over or trip up other people, neglect their cl… Read full post »

Will you at least put me out of my misery before you go? ~ Don to Faye
That’s two. ~ Topaz client
It’s good to be a gangsta, and it’s great to be Don Draper. Your company may be… Read full post »
The Return of Persephone by Frederic Leighton
In Greek mythology, Demeter is the goddess of the harvest, who controls the seasons and the fertility of the plants. She has a daughter, Persephone (fathered by Zeus) who as a young woman is abducted by Hades, the god of the underworl… Read full post »

Don: We can’t start over; we just started.
Peggy: You always say if you don’t like what they’re saying about you, change the conversation.
Don: To what? What they’re saying about us is true.
Of course, truth is just a starting… Read full post »

They’re about the meaningful life a woman leads when work is done. ~ Peggy
Ah, but a woman’s work is never done, as the old saying tells us. Sometimes just getting through her life is work. And sometimes work is… Read full post »

Stop it, kill it, at least find out how far it’s gone. ~ Don to Pete
“Cheer up. When God closes a door, he opens a dress,” goes a classic Rogerism from an earlier season of Mad Men. In the episode “Hands and/… Read full post »
The Beautiful Girls: Mad Men Season 4 Episode 9 (Commentary)
It’s like men are this vegetable soup and you can’t put them on a plate or put them on a counter. Women are the pot. They hold them. They contain them. Who wants to be a pot? Who says we’re not soup?
~ Joyce on gender relations… Read full post »
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