Are We There Yet?

Sarah Cavanaugh

Sarah Cavanaugh
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Cedar Grove, Wisconsin, USA
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August 01
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My poems have appeared in Poet Lore, Nimrod, and Southern Poetry Review. Currently, I am trying to reclaim my life after being blacklisted. Don't mess with the Federal Government or defense contractors. Wish me luck.

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MAY 22, 2012 2:29PM

Afterimage

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Afterimage: a visual image or other sense impression that persists after the stimulus that caused it is no longer operative.

    It was a different country then.  Children were raised in homes with two parents, a mother and father, a husband and wife. Usually the mother stayed home to raise the children, especially after the war years. The husband was the breadwinner and often stayed with the same company until he retired with a pension.  There was little diversity. There were no drugs. Abortion was an abomination.

    It was the world of Ozzie and Harriet. Everyone knew what was expected of them. The Brady Bunch, some years later, was about a blended family that was still traditional in its makeup.

   But massive change has come to American culture to the point where the traditional values of the fifties seem archaic. I wonder if the conservative movement draws its strength from those who feel nostalgic about the past, from those who want to go back to the way things used to be.

    It is as if they see the old America as a kind of afterimage. Their vision has not cleared. They may try to rub their eyes in an attempt to restore the past. But it exists now only as an imprint on the retinas of what was once the norm. There is no going back.  

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This is right on target... but then, in my case you're preaching to the choir Sarah!
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Humm...I'm not sure I can even begin to make sense with my comment but I would like to try. I am a boomer and was born in '49 and grew up in the sixties. I am also conservative in many of my beliefs though not nearly as conservative as most of my brethern.

Do I see this country like that after image you wrote about? I'm not sure, but I don't think I do. Oh I miss what it was but I am not fool enough to believe that this nation could ever go back to what I grew up with. I'm not even sure I want it to go back.

But....on my ten acres...I live my life quietly and in the manner which my father lived. That is my "After Image".

This probably made no sense to you but it was my honest feelings and I owe you and everyone else my honesty in the very least.
The problems with images of the "Good Old Days" is that they don't reveal what was unseen at the time which though it was "Old", was never, ever "Good."
Some things kept, some things thrown away. By individuals, by societies. The judgment to reclaim that which has been lost is always made by the individual. The society will never look back.
limb, The way I see it, you can't go wrong preaching to the choir. Thanks.
David, Your afterimage is the best there is. Thanks.
jmac, Try and tell them that, though. Thanks.
No there isn't. Eisenhower said before leaving to keep an eye one the defense industry. We should have listened I think.
Tex, You are wise, my friend.
scanner, I used to work for the defense industry. I came to think of it as evil personified.
Thought-provoking.
I keep thinking of how completely different life is here in Oregon vs. in Georgia. As if we aren't the same country at all. Both are drastically different than when I lived in Boston...and even driving through and visiting Wyoming, I could tell these folks thought differently, made the rest of us seem wimpy.
Sometimes I think we assume "America" ever did mean something similar to opposite ends of the country....it's no surprise at all to me the images, before, during, after, might be completely different in the first place, such a huge country we have.
3rd Contralto checking in from the choir---I saw an article or a blog elsewhere when I was surfing about how the "good ol' days" really weren't so good: Jim Crow, polio, back street abortions... Living in the present and building toward the future is the way to go.

R
What jmac said - though of course it wasn't all bad.
JT, What a thoughtful and perceptive response. Thanks.
V, And here's my amen to that from the choir.
Alysa, I suspect that the elderly in this country have had to make mind-bending adjustments over the years--and without their rose-colored glasses. Thanks.
Looking back seems futile. Perhaps the focus should be on the now, so much needs fixing if there is going to be a tomorrow for our children.
~R~
Never thought about it like that, but it makes sense.
HUGGGGGGGGG
I've always tended more towards "eye lid movies" the new stuff you see on the back of your eyelids after you rub your eyes. I never did trust Ozzie and Harriet...
Perfect analogy, Sarah.
In the 1940s my entire family was at war. Cousins in Europe fighting...In the 1950s...we were fighting in Korea, and then there was Nam. My parents grew up in the Depression.
My grandfather's generation fought in trenches. THE PAST.
But I do remember sitting at dining room table during the holidays.
I do remember living without fear in my neighborhood. But there were others living in terror and living without..same day....different place.
There were many redeeming factors in the past. Kids were raised different, I feel we have lost something in the middle. Seems sad. Maybe you reach an age where going back really does sound good. I must write on this.
the old Futureshock and good old Mayberry, the only small Southern town without an African American population.
I never experienced the Ozzie and Harriet life until recently. It is wild. What an interesting observation. I thought this was going to be your diet log.
I wish the choir would stop being preached at and start singing altogether and act. It's time to be proactive!

Excellent post, Sarah.
R♥