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Safe_Bet's Amy

Safe_Bet's Amy
In my own little hell, Alaska,
June 06
Missing her while trying to be as good a mom as she was.


AUGUST 5, 2009 8:18PM

Woohoo! We're moving to Iowa!!!!

I am SO lucky to be moving to Iowa!


Yup!  Lucky, lucky me!  I get to leave the horrid sunny beaches and nasty old mountains of Southern California for the fertile, flat fields of Iowa!  Yeah, lots and lots of flat fields… 


Soon, not only lots and lots and lots… Read full post »

JULY 24, 2009 1:37PM

Oh Crap! I’m a bigot too!

Last week I attended a PTA meeting with my friend Dorthea.  She is a black, single mother who has kids the same age as mine.  After the meeting, we were talking and she said, “Girl, I’ve known you for a couple of years now and you’ve always had those god awfulRead full post »

*Snerk*  I'm still laughing about this article.  The quotes are just too good!    

Man claims he found condom in French onion soup

  • SANTA ANA, Calif. – A man has sued a local Claim Jumper restaurant claiming he ordered French onion soup and bit into a c
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JULY 18, 2009 8:44AM

Proud of Them Being Proud of Us.


Later on this morning my daughters and Amy are going to walk in the San Diego Pride Parade. They are going without "Mom". I can't make it this year, but Amy is going to take both of their little hands and they are going to walk for all of us.

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I grew up on a farm in the Midwest.  Like many farm kids, I could drive a tractor, plow a field and backup a triple gang of hay wagons well before I had my drivers license.  To make me even more of a hick, I was a cheerleader for my/… Read full post »

JULY 14, 2009 1:49PM

Cough... Cough... Hack... Hack...

Dear SO,

I can't tell you how excited I am that you've decided to take up smoking cigarettes again! 

Mmmmm, that special aroma of burned plant matter in you hair and clothing... the cute little brown patina that will be on your teeth...  that wonderful taste of tar and nicotineRead full post »

Do you srt8 folks ever wonder why us queer folk get so wound up about our “rights”?  Why can’t we just sit and wait for things to take their course?  If you do, I’d ask you to wonder about this statement, as well… 

“Hope and love can be terribRead full post »


uuummm.....  Hi.I just want to introduce myself to those of you that don't know me and to "Say Hey" to those of you that do (and care).Let me apologize in advance if I trip and bump into you, step on your foot or spill your coffee.  I usually don't mean… Read full post »