Rachel Kramer Bussel
- Location
- New York, New York, USA
- Birthday
- November 10
- Title
- Writer
- Bio
- I'm a writer, editor, blogger and event organizer based in New York City. I've edited 39 anthologies, including Obsessed, Gotta Have It, Fast Girls, and more, and write widely about sex, dating, pop culture and books.
MY RECENT POSTS
- 4 Travel Tips I Learned From
My $345.60 Mistake
September 03, 2012 11:36PM - Where Have All the Blowjobs
Gone? Why Esquire Is Wrong
April 04, 2012 01:53PM - My iPhone Photos (all 5,000 of
Them), Myself
January 03, 2012 11:38AM - 30 Hours of Sleep, or, The
Fantasy of Escape
December 14, 2011 03:53PM - Why I Love Greenpoint,
Brooklyn indie bookstore WORD
November 30, 2011 11:49AM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “I am a huge fan of my
e-reader (I got a Nook). Just
want to
make that clear. I
do…”
December 01, 2011 11:14AM - “I think that's awesome
that you're both on Twitter -
my
grandfather is on
Twitter…”
November 23, 2011 03:12PM - “@ChillerPop - I'm not
aware of anywhere in my essay
where
I
"sexified"…”
October 24, 2011 01:48PM
Rachel Kramer Bussel's Links
4 Travel Tips I Learned From My $345.60 Mistake
Where Have All the Blowjobs Gone? Why Esquire Is Wrong
In the latest issue of Esquire, writer Goeff Dwyer frets that "[t]he blowjob has fallen on hard times." What he really means is that the female-delivered not-so-enthusiastic average quality male-received blowjob is on the wane, but even sticking to heterosexuality, Dwyer simply doesn't know where to… Read full post »
My iPhone Photos (all 5,000 of Them), Myself
I'm in the process of transferring over 5,000 photos from my iPhone, almost all the photos I've taken since I bought this phone in November of 2010, onto my laptop, and I have to admit that it's very challenging to click the little trash can icon in the bottom right of… Read full post »
From around 11 p.m. Saturday night until 10 a.m. Monday morning, I slept approximately 30 hours. The numbers are a bit fuzzy, but I do know I woke up at around 4 on Sunday afternoon, hazily aware that it was late, but not that late. I know that I roused myself… Read full post »
I love books, and I love talking about books, but I'm often hard pressed to find people outside the internet as eager to chat about the latest romance and young adult novels as they are about the new Gary Shteyngarten or Haruki Murakami (no offense). Where I know I can always… Read full post »
Adele, Joni and Me, Or My Two-Song Broken Heart Playlist
I can't seem to go a day without hearing "Someone Like You" by Adele. At a deli, a café, in a store or on my very own iTunes. I've been listening to it for months now as an anthem of a relationship that needed to end but that I didn't want… Read full post »
When I first started having sex with men at age 17, I assumed I'd always use condoms with guys, unless I was in a monogamous relationship or trying to get pregnant. That assumption stayed true through most of my twenties, but once I turned 30 I found myself involved with a… Read full post »
Why I Turned Down $3,000 To Be on a Reality TV Show
In August, I wrote about hoarding in a personal essay for Salon's Mortifying Disclosures section. I'd been debating between cyberstalking and hoarding as my most mortifying disclosures, and went with what I considered the mosre unusual and the more treacherous for me. I received mostly positive feedb… Read full post »
On Seeing The Agony and the Ecstasy of Steve Jobs again

photo by Robert Cheng/CNET
I saw this sign posted in a CNET News live blog about the new iPhone, and I couldn't help but think that 34 hours is the same amount of hours a worker at Foxconn worked in a row before dying, as discussed by Mike… Read full post »
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