A POST-MORMON LIFE

Life after leaving the Mormon Church

Rachel Velamur

Rachel Velamur
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February 15
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Born and raised in a strict Mormon family. I write about what life was like as a Mormon and what my life is like after leaving.

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JUNE 1, 2012 11:35AM

A Mall, The Mormon Church, And The Misuse Of Tithing Money

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There is a new mall in downtown Salt Lake City called City Creek Center.  This mall is, from what I have heard, a very nice mall.  Adjacent to Temple Square and built to revitalize the downtown area, City Creek Center offers shopping, as well business and residential space.1  

Normally I could care less about a mall in Salt Lake City.  I think Utah is a gorgeous state, blessed with an abundance of natural beauty.  However, my kind are not welcome in Utah and so I stay away.  But the issue is this: City Creek Center and the revitalization of downtown Salt Lake City was financed and built by the Mormon Church to the tune of 5 billion dollars.  That’s right.  A tax-free organization financed by the charitable donations of church members decided to spend billions of dollars building a shopping mall.2  

I found out about the City Creek Center about six months ago.  And every time I think about the issue, I start getting angry.   My parents are faithful tithing payers.  Every year, they give 10% of their pre-tax income to the Mormon church.  Tithing comes before food, bills, and everything else.  As a kid, I saw first-hand just how much my parents had to struggle to pay tithing and feed a huge family.  No matter how desperate times got (and there were some very, very desperate times) my parents have always paid their tithing. And my parents have complete faith in the Mormon Church.  They pay their tithing trusting that the Mormon church will put their hard-earned money to good use.  

And how does the Mormon church treat their members?  Well, to start with, the Mormon church has never published their financial reports.  They take my parents’ money but they don’t have the courtesy to tell them how they use the money.  And now I find that my parents’ contributions are being funneled into the creation of a mall in Salt Lake City.  

If that isn’t enough to turn me into the stereotypical “angry apostate”, there is also the issue of Church janitorial services.  The Mormon Church used to pay for people to clean their churches.  When I was little and my family was extremely poor, my mother used to work as the church janitor.  Sometimes my sister and I would come to work with her; we would sleep in one of the classrooms while my mother worked through the night cleaning the church.  Now the Church has decided they can no longer afford to pay for janitors.  Members are now expected to pitch in and volunteer time to clean their church building.  So not only is the Mormon Church dropping a whole bundle of money on a mall in Salt Lake City, in order to cut costs they have now decided to add an extra burden to their already over-worked members.  

My parents have given so much to the Mormon Church.  Over the years they have paid tithing, paid to send their children on missions, given fast offerings, and put  in countless volunteer hours.  They made these sacrifices out of love for their church and because they believed it was the right thing to do.  Now they are approaching retirement with little more than Social Security and my mother’s school-teacher pension.  They have given everything they have to the Mormon Church.  I wish that my parents had the courage to stand up for themselves; their sacrifices should be given meaning by the Church.  But my parents won’t. They have spent too many years being indoctrinated by a church that forbids dissension of any sort, however justified the dissent may be.  

 1 - http://www.shopcitycreekcenter.com/ 

2 - http://www.ksl.com/?nid=148&sid=19428181&title=a-look-inside-as-city-creek-centers-completion-nears&s_cid=featured-1 

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Again, you are mistaken about tithing. It is a personal choice whether or not you pay 10% pre-tax or post-tax of your income.
The fact still remains that the LDS Church has spent billions of dollars building a mall and revitalizing downtown SLC. Added to which they don't publish their financial reports, in spite of the sacrifices members must undergo in order to pay tithing. Members should be given the right to know where their hard-earned money is going.
My question is does the Mormon Church get to take profits from the Mall and other new businesses tax free?

@546olivia: So are you saying that tithing, in general, is purely voluntary? Is it required to remain active in the church or not?

Lezlie
I'm not sure if the profits are tax-free or not; the Church has never published its financial reports, so it is hard to tell where all of the money is going. I'll try and look that up for you. But the LDS Church does have some other for-profit enterprises; hunting preserves for one.

Tithing is technically voluntary but if you don't pay, you won't be eligible for a temple recommend. Not having a temple recommend is a pretty serious matter; you won't be able to attend the weddings of family and friends, for one. And the social pressure to pay tithing is pretty intense; every year, the bishop of a ward will schedule a tithing settlement with each family, during which he will ask them whether they are paying a full tithe or not. Even as a kid, I had to go to tithing settlement, where the bishop would ask me if I had paid a full tithe for the year or not. I always felt guilty because I didn't know for certain if I had paid a full tithing or not; I was pretty absent-minded about what little pocket-money I had.
Interesting truths. There is a tremendous amount of corruption with non profits, especially churches, or religious ones. There tax status should no longer be protected, then they must report their earnings. For all we know they could all be laundering drug money!!!
@L, I lived in UT and have many friends and co-workers who are Mormon. It's not really a choice for the Mormons on the 10% tithe. Those who don't aren't in good standing, cannot enter the Temples, and on and on. A non-LDS co-worker moved to UT and the local LDS Bishop asked to see his W-2 so he could estimate his tithe. The Bishop VERY quickly found out the new guy was NOT Mormon.
pmg -- forgot to comment on your post. Nice job. The big rumor amongst us non-Mormons when I lied in UT was that the LDS church owns millions of dollars worth of Coca-Cola stock and is, in fact, the majority shareholder. Whether or not it's true, the church is out to make money.
You know, if the Coca-Cola rumor were true that would be highly ironic; growing up I was told to stay away from caffeinated sodas. Nowadays the authorities have come out and said that drinking caffeinated sodas is OK but as a kid, a lot of people were pretty strict about abstaining from cola drinks.
Sheila: It also bothers me that a tax-exempt religion is allowed to get so mixed up in politics and still maintain their tax-exempt status. Prop 8 is not the first (and probably not the last) time that the Mormon Church has gotten involved in political issues. The authorities also went to great efforts to block the Equal Rights Amendment from passing. It's very frustrating to see.