Pat MacEnulty

Pat MacEnulty
Location
Charlotte, North Carolina, USA
Birthday
December 31
Bio
Writer and teacher. My most recent book, Wait Until Tomorrow: A Daughter's Memoir, is about taking care of my elderly mom. Published by The Feminist Press in 2011. I also give writing workshops on transformative writing.

MY RECENT POSTS

SEPTEMBER 5, 2012 7:55PM

We're gonna party like it's not 1968

In 1968 I was in the eighth grade -- too young to be a part of the massive student protest movement that swept the nation. By the time I was old enough to participate, most of the serious protesting had been quelled by the ignominious end to an unpopular war. Although… Read full post »
My definition of transformative writing is writing that seeks to connect, understand, and illuminate. Although transformative writing is therapeutic, it’s not just that. Transformative writing strives for a level of artistry that, to borrow from Faulkner, uplifts our souls. Transformative writi… Read full post »
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FEBRUARY 13, 2012 6:53AM

The Fire This Time

I hear the tone of her voice before anything else. “Mom! Wake up!” 
“What?” I burst out of the cocoon of sleep. 
“The bathroom is on fire!”
It’s early morning. Still dark. I had just fallen back to sleep. It had been a rough night… Read full post »
JANUARY 30, 2012 7:12AM

Writing, Exploring

This is a reposting from my Transformative Writing Blog: http://bit.ly/yk9Zlm

My friend Becky recently said to me, “The thing about writing is that all the things you don’t know about yourself come out.” This is one of the reasons I think of writing as spiritual exploration. We are… Read full post »

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JANUARY 20, 2012 10:12PM

C-sections: Not Always Necessary, Not Always Safe

Ina May Gaskin, author of Birth Matters, is dismayed by the high rate of cesarean births in this country, and in her new book, she takes the medical community to task for putting women’s lives in dangers by these often unnecessary operations. About one in three women in the U.S. have… Read full post »
JANUARY 8, 2012 4:10PM

The Yoga of Transformative Writing

The following post is from my transformative writing blog (http://transformativewriting.blogspot.com/)
 
I can easily remember the date of my first yoga class here in Charlotte, North Carolina. It was Sept. 11, 2001. I had taken a few classes here and there in the 1990’s back in… Read full post »
DECEMBER 28, 2011 10:58AM

Gestation is Part of the Writing Process

 I went a couple of weeks without writing a post for this blog -- or writing anything else, for that matter. I was tired and there were some personal issues that were on my mind. I didn't even write in my journal. 

Writers tend to beat themselves up if they… Read full post »
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DECEMBER 6, 2011 2:12PM

My Mother's Farewell

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Six months and a few days after my mother’s death, I stepped into the church yard of St. Paul’s Episcopal Church in Edenton, NC, where she had once been the organist and music director. I carried her ashes in a big Barnes & Noble shopping bag over my… Read full post »
NOVEMBER 25, 2011 5:29PM

My Mother's Last Thanksgiving

The following is an excerpt from my memoir Wait Until Tomorrow. (In the book I include the recipe for Greg's awesome soup.)

Thanksgiving 2009. My husband and I have been separated for nearly a year, and my roommate Lorri, whom I met the previous summer, has moved in and become a… Read full post »

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NOVEMBER 23, 2011 2:10PM

Homecoming

Forty years ago I was a 15-year-old high school junior at Robert E. Lee High School in Jacksonville, Florida. I do not have fond memories of high school. I certainly didn’t go to football games or participate in any extracurricular activities. I wasn’t in drama club, if they even had one,… Read full post »
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NOVEMBER 6, 2011 6:12PM

Career? Maybe. Brilliant? Absolutely!

Ever since I was the editor of a literary magazine in college, I wanted to be not just a writer, but also a publisher of some sort. However, I never really tried to land a job in publishing. Instead I taught college classes when I could get them and worked as… Read full post »
OCTOBER 27, 2011 7:16AM

Dear 53%, You Have SO Missed the Point

Look, for what it’s worth, I’m one of you, one of the taxpayers. That doesn’t mean I don’t get what Occupy Wall Street is all about. I know the FOX puppets have been telling you it’s about lazy, irresponsible people who want handouts. Because it’s always about lazy… Read full post »
OCTOBER 25, 2011 8:43AM

Your Cheatin' Pen

Last night I dreamt that my writing teacher, the late Jerry Stern, caught me kissing someone I was not involved with. He was going to tell on me, and I joyfully said: “Go ahead! I love kissing different people.” It wasn’t till I woke up and started thinking about the writing… Read full post »
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OCTOBER 21, 2011 9:24AM

My bully, Myself

“Is that her?” my friend Kim asked. 
I stood up from the table and looked toward the doorway to the restaurant. The woman who had just entered turned toward me and my chest tightened. We met each other with open arms, and she squeezed me tightly. You see before… Read full post »
OCTOBER 19, 2011 7:04AM

Transforming Ourselves with Words

A transformative writers retreat is just that: transformative. I held my first Transformative Writers Retreat this past weekend (Oct. 15 & 16) at Sevenoaks Retreat Center. I have given day-long workshops before, but this was my first overnight retreat. Poet Kim Garcia joined me to help lead seven… Read full post »

 I was reading a literary magazine called Burnside Review and came across a story called “Subterranean Lovesick Blues” by a writer named Nick Ekkizogloy. The first sentence goes like this: “I asked permission to bury my broke-down Ford Taurus by kneeling at Sandy's grave and la… Read full post »
What are your ideal writing conditions? Virginia Woolf advocated for having a room of one’s own. Some people prefer writing in a coffee shop. Other writers have an office in their home. Some people like to go to a residency away from the distractions of their day-to-day lives. I know a… Read full post »
SEPTEMBER 23, 2011 11:43AM

Writing Retreat for Alchemists

 
One of my favorite quotes is from Saul Bellow in a letter to John Cheever: “You were engaged, as a writer should be, in transforming yourself. When I read your collected stories I was moved to see the transformation taking place on the printed page. There's nothing that counts really… Read full post »
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SEPTEMBER 22, 2011 7:18AM

My Father's Secret Life -- As a Good Dad

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Neither of my older brothers nor I have much in the way of fond memories of our father. My brothers are 11 and 12 years older than I, and they tell me that when I was three years old I was so terrified of him that on the… Read full post »
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SEPTEMBER 21, 2011 9:06AM

How Do You Know When It's Time to Go?

This is an excerpt from my memoir "Wait Until Tomorrow":

Ever since Mom got back to the Sanctuary, she’s shakier than ever before. On Monday I go to visit her after my class. We sit outside to absorb some vitamin D, and then she says the inevitable: “I have to… Read full post »

SEPTEMBER 20, 2011 7:14AM

Getting Naked in Class

I teach writing at a career university where English isn’t offered as a major, but all the students must have some English composition courses in order to graduate. A lot of them don’t really like to write. Many of them haven’t read a lot. When they do write, it's often in… Read full post »
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SEPTEMBER 7, 2011 10:34AM

Remembering Mom

On November 27, 2011, my family and I will convene on the small town of Edenton, North Carolina for a memorial service for my mother. I think I will share this excerpt from my memoir with those who join us to celebrate her life:

When my mother lifted her hands, music… Read full post »

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“My humanity is in feeling we are all voices of the same poverty.”
-- Jorge Luis Borges

I am writing this entry from a school classroom set on the outskirts of a squatters’ camp near Cape Town, South… Read full post »
AUGUST 11, 2011 10:27AM

In Praise of Writing Groups

A couple of weekends ago I spent two blissful days with five guys and assorted other friends and family members at a beach house in Alligator Point. The five guys were members of a writing workshop I was in during grad school. I’ve been in a number of writing groups over… Read full post »
JULY 28, 2011 6:07PM

The Kids Are Not All Right, Glenn

Glenn Beck compared the 68 Norwegian teenagers who were recently murdered in a horrific attack to “Hitler Youth.” Really. His rationale was that the young people were at a political camp. He somehow finds providing a camp for teenagers that focuses on politics to be “disturbing.&rdq… Read full post »