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FEBRUARY 18, 2010 11:07AM

Strangers on a Train -- New Haven Division

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It's been almost four months since I started commuting from Connecticut. I used to commute from Yonkers into New York on a different branch of Metro-North, the Hudson line. I wrote about that experience here.

This commute takes a little longer, about 79 minutes to go the 59 miles from my station to Grand Central Terminal. There's an interesting cast of characters that ride the 5:55 am train into New York everyday. It all begins on the platform.

I call the group that gathers on the platform before the train arrives the kaffe-klatsch. This is a diverse group of locals who have been riding together for years. They are made of the following individuals:

Dapper Dan - He always wears a three piece suit to work. The linings of his custom suits usually are brighter colors and he accessorizes them with ties that compliment the lining. The back of his vest is always the same color as the lining of his suit coat. This is his big fashion statement. He's in his 60s. The purple lining was complimented with a purple tie this morning.

Sarah Palin's mom - I call her that because she's been reading Going Rogue.  She wears "the bedspread" on really cold days.  The kaffe-klatsch ribs her about her coat because it looks like a down comforter you put on a bed. They coined the term. She has short grey hair and glasses and could pass as a distant relative of Caribou Barbie.

Average Joe -- He always wears the same coat; an orange and gray ski parka. He's usually arrives first.

Sarah Palin mom's Son - He's in his 30s. He usually carpools with Mom to the station and hangs out with the kaffe-klatsch,but isn't a vocal member of the group. I think it's a generational thing.

There are couple of other women who show up, but not on a regular basis. The kaffe-klatsch will banter with each other like old friends on the platform. After all they've been doing this for years. An interesting phenomenon takes place, when the train arrives. They all board and go their separate ways to get seats. The conversation among them begins and ends on the platform.

As I get on the train, there are a couple of regulars already on board.

Sleeping Beauty is a twenty something woman who reminds me of Sally Struthers in her younger days. She could sleep through an atomic attack if one were to occur on the New Haven line.

Data entry is a fifty something who constantly writes while on the train. When she's not making changes to documents in long hand, she's writing in a buff covered note book. I think it's a personal journal. She always wears black. She has close cropped blonde hair, and always carries a flourescent green and black L.L. Bean backpack.

As the train travels to New York two more regulars get on in Fairfield. I call them Peg Bundy and Marcy D'Arcy two characters from the series Married with Children. 

Peg is the tall redhead while Marcy is the shorter woman with short hair. Marcy physically resembles the actress Amanda Bearse. They are inseparable and always sit together. You rarely see one without the other.

At the next stop, Westport, two others get on the train. Both are finance types. One is a tall African-American gentleman who I call Barack Obama. While his resemblence is that he is tall and thin like the President, I suspect that he is a republican. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

The other person who gets on in Westport is Finance Gal. She dresses conservatively but always sports a colorful scarf. He dark brown hair is streaked with gray, and is very wavy. She always sports a headband to keep it in place. She's not beautiful, nor is she pretty, but she is attractive in an unassuming, demure way. You would pick her out of a crowd. She would probably blush reading this description of her.

I ride on the train every workday, and while I play a little game in my mind about who these people are and what they do, I would give a penny for their thoughts if they knew I was blogging about them in this space at Open Salon.

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OEsheepdog, that is one of the fascinating things about riding the same train everyday--the cast of characters that you see daily. While I don't use the train as often, I still wonder about the people in the car with me. You certainly came up with some humorous names and descriptions in your post! Maybe they have similar counterparts who ride the Harlem division . . . I'll have to stay on the lookout for them.
John -- I do a lot of observation while I'm riding the train. I am fascinated about Data Entry. What is she writing in her notebook?
Thanks for the comment.
Brings back memories of my Hudson line commute to GCT from Mt. Vernon West all those years ago. People-watching is a fabulous past time, especially for us creative types - you get a lot of material for characters. :-D

Well-deserved EP, Andy. Great job.
Great post and observations.
Robyn -- they've design some new rail cars with head rest to prevent the shoulder drooping phenomenon you decribed. I'm not sure about drool prevention.

Bill S. -- Thanks very much. It is cool watching them. I wonder how many months/years it is before I'm viewed by them as a "regular".

Bonnie -- It's a small world, so who knows. I'd be amused to see how someone would describe me in their blog.
sophieh -- Thanks for riding Metro North with me today.

jane -- I'd love to read it.
crushin just a tad on Finance Gal, are you?
Brian B -- Funny you say that. I guess it reads that way, but I'm not. She has a face and a presence you just come back to.
Back when I lived in New York my office was in Grand Central Station. I'd often imagine the lives of all the people I saw coming and going, meeting at the clock....

I do the same thing in client meetings now--forget about the business being discussed and instead let my mind wander to what I imagine might be the intimate details of the person's life.

Great post:)
OE, she's writing about you. ("What lovely hair he has! And such a nice disposition.")
People watching can be the best part of a transit commute. I was amazed to how different it is on a suburban commuter line compared to riding the El in the city.

On a commuter line with a limited schedule, you do see a lot of the same faces from day to day, and it can be great fun to create names and stories for them. On the commute to my last job, I regularly saw a woman who I named Big Bird's Dwarf Cousin. She was short and bubbly with big blonde hair. The nickname came from her usual winter coat - long and black, with fluffy feathery bright yellow trim around the cuffs, hem and hood, and bright yellow lining. I almost laughed out loud the first time I saw that coat.

Riding the El within the city limits, with more frequent service and many more stops, the cast of characters is much more random. Some people get on and ride all the way downtown. Others get on for just a few stops. You may see someone every day for a week, then not be on the same train for months.

Sheepie - This little trip was great fun. I hope you'll revisit the characters of your new commute in a future post. Rated.
Eden -- My daughter and grandson from Maine visited last weekend and we took the train into Grand Central. Watching her awestruck face as we walking into the terminal was a treat.

AHP -- I don't lust after her, honest. She's too busy reading the Wall Street Journal to notice me either.

Bike -- What's interesting is that I rarely see any of these people on my commute home. They all take different trains home. And that is perfectly ok. Thanks for the comment.
Very good post Sheep and great cast of charactors here. I can see them from the good descriptions you provided here in this well written piece.
I do admit having a laugh at the jacket details. Guess that is the most visable thing you see.
Mission -- I don't wish to dig any deeper on Dapper Dan's wardrobe.
OE, you are a keen observer of the world around you.
Walt -- I don't even have coffee until I get into the city. Imagine my powers of observation if I was fully caffeinated.
I think I have a crush on Dapper Dan.
Data Entry is probably writing about you!
This inspires me to name everybody in my life by how I perceive them. Thanks for the inspiration! Fun read.
Tee-hee! I truly hope they read about themselves one day!
Interesting reading. I rode the Hudson and Harlem lines for many years. The electrified trains made such a difference --really dependable, and on time. The worst thing is the cell phone talkers. Why do they talk so loud? There should be no-cell cars.

I always people-watched, like you. That and worked on my computer, read and slept. Useful time to decompress.
Ahhh people watching at it's best. I do adore this sport, and I journal it often, sometimes it's just a commentary playing in my head throughout the day, very entertaining. I felt as if I was on that morning journey with you, thanks for the ride, lol.
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Situational intimacy is a interesting phenomena. I enjoyed reading this.
Data Entry is going to be the next Joyce Carol Oates.
I do the same thing at work. Heck we have a lot of regulars and I have no idea what their names are.
Our family describes the "regulars" in much the same way . . . complete with descriptive nicknames. They become part of our worlds, don't they?
It is interesting that the klatsch's conversation ends at the platform. Maybe that's their secret of their longevity. My train car companions are usually known as "The jackasses who are taking up my space."
Hmmm. And what are they whispering about you?
R
Been there, get it. It is a world unto its own. One day we had a guy get on the upper deck. He leaves a large zipped up bag up on the seat, then leaves. We hear a recorded message everyday, twice on each ride, " If you see any unattended baggage, please notify the conductor." I think about it, I think about 9/11 etc. I decide to let them know, they come and punch my 10 ride. I tell the conductor discreetly that we have been riding for several minutes with an unattended bag. They are over the speaker asking the owner to come and get his bag. He never comes. The train stops. We evacuate the car. Everyone does it in an orderly manner, no bitching. Lots of cell phone activity. I will be late, I will call. The police come. They have to remove the suspected baggage. NO bomb. Just a huge bag stuffed with WHAT? Who knows. All this courtesy of our new reality and the absentmindedness of perhaps a drunk..............................
Data Entry seems intriguing to me, too.
Find out what's in the backpack.
;-)
They'd probably love it...or sue! Great visuals, sounds like a pretty cool commute.
Fair warning here, OE: if'n you don't ask Data Entry out, don't be surprised if Dapper Dan (me) doesn't sidle up to her one day and ask for her sign, or something equally suave.

I, too would like to read more about these folks. Maybe you could apprise us on a weekly basis? (r)
I played this game with the folks on certain buslines in New Orleans, back when I had to be at school at 8 am every day and took two buses to get there.

I rode the Broad line with a couple of "living statues" who painted themselves copper and silver and stood in Jackson Square all day for tips. They'd get off on one side of Elysian Fields at Gentilly, I'd get off on the other. Then they'd board the Elysian Fields bus towards the river, I'd board the one heading towards the lake.
Very Harriet the Spy :)
Well, it is Connecticut. r.
I envy your 79 minutes of people watching. Fascinating._r
Funny, Joan, I was just going to say I DON"T envy his 79 minute commute. But loved the story
Andy, this is just so excellent! I think natural writers tend to do this kind of inner observational description more than others and you've done it really well. I feel like I've seen and know your fellow commuters.
how fun! i miss my commute on trains and buses; i loved people watching and eavesdropping as you do. you're commute is certainly long sheep -- jeeze. i hope you only have an 8 hr. workday!
I am a fan of train travel or any mass transit actually. I like the adventure of it. I could relate to this post as I do the same imagining about people also. This was fun. I could see your fellow travelers. My best train trip was Vancouver to Quebec City. I have been all over the states on Amtrak. Keep us informed of any new information.
This was wonderful! What an imagination!
A fascinating slice of everyday Americana, these times on the train, little windows into the lives of people you would have no reason to know except for these brief moments.

If you are riding on the train every day lets have some fun and breathe some life into your fellow riders.
I loved this internal conversation...very modern interpretation of the internal voice we often don't give air to which is universally unifying.

I also love the idea of riding a train to work. The only thing better? A ferry...that's why I love Washington.
Love it! And I love Metro North. Are you familiar with the band The Roches? They have a song called "Commuter Train" that is about riding Metro North!
I often wish I could drive less and bus more - no light rail here yet.
My brother gets on in Southport twice a week - I'll tell him to look out for any observant canines in the future.
Best New Haven RR flick? Doris Day, Jack Lemmon and Ernie Kovacs in "It Happened to Jane" (1955) filmed in Hartford, New Haven and along the Valley Line north of Saybrook, because it looked more like Maine than the Maine where the story was set. Next best is Hitchcock's "Strangers on a Train", supposed to be between DC and NYC on Pennsy, but actually filmed in and around Danbury on the New Haven branch out of Norwalk.