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Jeanine T. Abraham

Jeanine T. Abraham
Location
Brooklyn, New York, USA
Birthday
March 20
Bio
I began this blog to document my path as a new chef building my business. It's turned into me re-connecting with my true life's purpose as a storyteller and actor. I started out as an actor, left to start a speed dating company, a catering events company, leading conscious dance forms, being a health coach... only to return to being an actor. These are my stories...

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MAY 25, 2012 9:52AM

Being Black at Burning Man

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Party in the desert

I wrote this as a response to a  post on a Burning man group on Facebook.

The original question was:

Am I sensitive or is BM mainly a white folk thing?

 

There were several posts back and forth... I finally posted this:

 

My experiences at Burning Man have been the most beautiful and the most horrible. Everything is extreme there. Are there clueless racist folks who said stupid racist shit to me when I was there? Yes. Were there awesome loving amazing folks who were German, French, Caucasian American, Asian , Bi racial, Tri racial Quadriracial(whatever that is) who adored me, helped me when I was lost, danced with me, laughed with me, shook their asses on art cars with me, and are now my friends for life? Yes!!

Being a black person in this country you will have to deal with racism of all sorts. It still exists. I say this not with a chip on my shoulder, but as a reality of living in my skin. But the fact that at Burning man there is freedom of expression love and acceptance...now that is freeing. I choose to love. Even those who don't love me because of the color of my skin. I can still send them love, and that love just rebounds back to me. So if they are racist fuck them!

Focus on attracting loving friends at Burning Man and you will be blessed over and over again. Yes, I'm black and I like to go out to the dessert and play every once and and shake it. And that's okay.

Oh, on the color blind thing... to me that's funky. I'm a chef. I see all the different colors of the food I prepare and that diversity is not only healthy and beautiful to my eyes, but each color incorporates the vitamins an minerals into the various parts of my body that I need to be a healthy well rounded person.

When it comes to money, I don't want stock in just one type of company I wanna diversify! So when it comes to people, yes I see everyone's color and want to learn about people who may look different than me and have a different culture, and at the same time we can share so much as human beings. We may love the same types of food, or music or dance...whatever. Different folks give life so much spice. So no, I'm not color blind, I want to behold the beauty of all of the colors, cultures, races, tribes, vibes whatever.

And when I am the one black American at a party on the playa I can break all kinds of stereotypes. I can break any labels I want, that's the cool idea about Burning Man, you can be free if you want.

 

I strive to carry that freedom on in my life off the playa too.  Living in this country as a black person you must deal with racisim, and we are dealing with these issues as free black people.  Freedom.  We are free, freedom is now our birthright.  Yes.

J9

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Cool. I go to Pagan festivals, which are, ah, cooler in temp than the desert (argh), but are let-it-all-hang-out events. They too are largely white-folk events, but people of (various) color come too. And the various sexual diversities take the opportunity to be *free* (and the straight guys love to wear skirts - sarongs or kilts). One of the factors is that the Pagan white-folk have some small experience of being discriminated against and stereotyped, so that tends to make them more *whatever* ('tolerant' is a horrid word)...happy to get along with everyone.
I agree too with the assertion some make that they do not see color.
It's not natural or believable.
When you are the race that is considered "different" in a dominant culture, the first instinct is to try to assimilate. Straightening hair, lightening skin,trying to marry a lighter skinned person so that you had kids who were "less black" were considered to be pathways to a better life for some black people.

When you are in the majority, you want to do something to be individual, show your creativity and break out from the mold. I see this in the majority "white" culture thru time. Being a Pagan, or going to Burning man provides folks a way to show their individuality in a world where they may feel lost in the crowd.

In the "African American" community, I am one of the outsiders. I don't straighten my hair or do any of the things that many may connect to the stereotype of the "African American" community. Everywhere I go I'm different. I used to try to assimilate, but it was tiring. It feels good just to be.
I had no idea racism would even remotely be an issue where Burning Man is concerned. Thanks for this perspective, and I'm glad that despite some crappy people, the experience seems to have been an extremely positive one for you.
I had always supposed Burning Man and other freestyle, artsy festivals would be relatively free from racism, sexism, homophobia, etc. -- but now that you've brought it up, it's naive to think there is a place on earth that humans inhabit that would be free of human prejudice. I'm glad you addressed the issue, provided an honest and hopeful viewpoint. You certainly made me think.
sure do wanna try out that festival someday.
uh ps the glasses in the burning man pic-- pretty retro. think you'd look even hotter with some other pair =)
What a great way to live your life, and it must take patience. I love that photo and what it imparts about you. Nicely done Jeanine.
congrats on EP and cover.
I did not realize it was on cover, been working, in kitchen cooking for 150 kids for my weekend gig ;)

Thanks for the love everyone!
I had no idea I must live in a small world, I love your response, honest and heartfelt and spot on.
Honest people are my favorites. I love your writing!