Ooohh. Will you give him a chance?
Lezlie

I will not even begin to assume whether the "he" or "she" is your voice or the other person's. All I can say is "thank you" for taking the leap of faith to write about something so deeply personal. We are listening.

So much pain but he loves her....r.

She was afraid, but he is patient. Together they took a chance. She isn't afraid anymore.

Could be your story. Or you can shut him out again and get another cat. It's up to you....