Kat Wilder

Kat Wilder
California, USA
Marin Independent Journal
As a middle-aged divorced mom in Northern California, I have a lot to say — and sometimes people even listen to me (unlike my teen). I am a columnist/blogger for the Marin Independent Journal, where I share my humorous thoughts and experiences on balancing kids, work, friendships, dating, exes, perimenopause and midlife sex


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FEBRUARY 24, 2009 1:04AM

Does this relationship make me look fat?

I have paid close attention to the election, as I imagine most of us have ( and if you haven't, I can just hear your mother now; "Shame on you!").

I've been watching and rewatching the debates and interviews and photo ops over and over — YouTube is… Read full post »

AUGUST 21, 2008 3:23PM

He cheated once; will he cheat again?

It doesn't make a difference if you're single or married. It's very likely that at one point in your life, you'll have to decide — once a cheater, always a cheater?

No one knows for sure the numbers of cheating spouses — some say as high as 60 percent to 70… Read full post »

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AUGUST 20, 2008 8:03PM

Getting married? You can always do what porn stars do

AUGUST 19, 2008 7:58PM

Men don't leave

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AUGUST 19, 2008 1:53PM

Searching for Mr. Right

“I’m done with divorced men!”

It was Sara on the phone, after what I was surmising was a disappointing

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AUGUST 18, 2008 8:24PM

Crazy in love

"You really look lovely tonight, Kat."

"And you, Nate," I teased, "you really do need to get that Lasik

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AUGUST 18, 2008 6:59PM

What's so wrong about porn?

I will state this right from the start: I am a fan of porn.

I like watching

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