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doublygifted

doublygifted
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Mobile, Alabama, USA
Birthday
November 22
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Owner
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Design Workshop, LLC
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Place and community are what is ultimately important to me, and if the place that I am in presently has no sense of community, then I have two choices: Leave or change it for the better. Luckily for me, I've got more opportunity than most to do both.

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OCTOBER 17, 2011 11:28AM

What did I say? Where did everyone go?

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I'm just imagining it of course, but I do think that my responses to the flame throwers on the local newspaper website have been consistent in one way: Everytime I post something thoughtful, it ends up being the last post.

Why is that? Why aren't there any people out there who read the online newspaper who will say, "Nice post, doublygifted." or "why do you say that?" or "I disagree, but I hadn't actually thought of it that way" or another civilized way of continuing to learn from one another. 

 Of course, it must be because the flame throwers are expected to come back out and throw another  bombshell back at me, but I am beginning to think that other explanations might be equally worth considering: That I am partly correct and flame throwers don't do "Well, perhaps" all that well. Or maybe it is just that I am the last to the party, having been all "over the map" with my total online obsession during times like these.

 I wondered recently if I missed the old days, when Compuserve was the only place, or Prodigy, or the BBS or whatever it was that came first. Even this site, evolved as it has from Salon.com's table talk and the first blog site ever created to my knowledge, the beautiful Radio Userland platform that was just complicated enough to keep those flame throwers from having the intellectual wherewithal to throw much of anything.

I don't. I love the fact that you tube can now be streamed on the side wall of a building in NYC, or on an iPad. And that's what gives me so much confidence that this time it will stick. I think that the generations who came home in the late 40's to give "rise" to the baby boomers who then had to endure the forced shutdown of their hopeful new world by greed, media microfocusing, and the megaphone of NO, or NOT YET, or NOT NOW, or NO  Way Jose, or any of the other cut to the quick messages that this ailing media machine still thinks will hold it up.

The media is the message. And the media savvy millenialls have nowhere else to turn, they know what their idols were saying when we were still trying to find the right buttons to push, and they are going to be just fine.

Thank you, very much. The Dolls of the culture war.

 

 

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I walked away from the lie at 19, and have been cranking my own way through now, mostly alone in my ideas for decades. The elite got to the point where they no longer needed the lie. No one spent more time on the math then them. The lie was never true - and thats half the lie - the other half is that we have been convinced they care about place - in this case, America. We have turned our backs on people to get more stuff - we have moved to the suburbs becuse we fell for the illusion of the "triple dream" - but we were really dividing ourselves for easier management - like cattle paying for their own pens with their flesh. We have built our own prison camps - and pay dearly for the right to live in them.
People are always reminding me that an artist is always more well accepted after they are dead. I keep trying to die, but my friends keep pulling me back into the reality of the world and shaking me loose from my childhood fears of rejection. I'm still more uncertain when I post too much, just as yesterday when I pulled down the longest and for me the most well thought out post, because I could not get the images of my former boss's blood pressure getting the best of him the last day I worked for him out of my mind.
I will just find more subtle ways to send the message under the door.
Flame throwers or trolls are often more concerned with keeping the argument going and may prefer it when people get upset. when they're faced with rational responses they often lose interest and go away; this may be just as well until they learn to behave better it would be better to continue any given discussion with those that are willing to respond politely.
Zachary, you're right of course. I'm having one of those Monday morning regretful feelings after having impulsively sent out an open salon post yesterday, and the worst part of it is that it invites people to "join" when most of them couldn't care less about joining anything. And when half the world is marching in protest, asking someone to join is just poorly timed. At least, that's the way I would see it if I still had a job.