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NOVEMBER 22, 2010 6:20PM

My mom, a MS teacher on the day Kennedy died

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(My mother has severe heart trouble, among other things.  She speaks slowly and not very strongly.) 

Me:  Where were you the day Kennedy died?

Mama:  At Pass Christian High School.

Me:  What were you doing?

Mama:  Teaching, uh, English. (Sighing.)

Me:  What were your students like?

(She thinks, shifts in seat, says nothing) Me: Smart, well-behaved, not well-behaved, in between?

Mama:  In between.

Me:  When and how were you told about his death?

Mama:  Over the intercom.

Me:  What was said and who said it?

Mama:  Our principal, Mr. Lizana, um, said our president had been shot.

Me:  Did he say more?

Mama:  No.

Me:  What did the kids do?

Mama:  They clapped.

Me:  All of them?  Most of them? 

Mama:  Most of them.

Me:  Do you remember any looking sad?

Mama:  No.

Me:  Did any seem angry or just sit there?

Mama:  They just sat there.

Me:  Was there cheering?

Mama:  No.

Me:  But you said most of them clapped?

Mama:  Um-hmm.

Me:  Why did they clap?

Mama:  I don't know.

Me:  Do you think other rooms had kids that clapped?

Mama:  Probably so.

Me:  What did the teachers say?

Mama:  I don't know.

Me:  What did your family say?

 Mama:  I don't know, Sissy.

Me:  When did you hear he had died?

Mama:  I think it was November 23. 

Me:  What time of day did you hear it?

Mama:  Probably about noon.

Me:  Did the kids know he had died when they clapped?

Mama:  Yes.

 

 

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They clapped? OK, I've got to think about this a bit.
It's possible I shouldn't have written this. It is a story she told me before more than once, so today I just asked her. I know two people about my mom's age--both from the South--who didn't want to believe it when I told them. Others have said he had a very low popularity rating overall and that this is forgotten.
No, you should have written it, definitely. I wasn't born yet when he died, so it's great to hear an eyewitness account of it. History tells us the entire nation went into shock and mourning, but then history often gives us a simplistic view of reality.
I asked two more questions that I left off. I might add them now.
Your call of course, but now I'm dying to hear them.
Me: What did you do when they clapped?

(She couldn't remember, but I reminded her that she'd said before that she told them to stop. She just said something like, "If I said that...")
Me: Were *you* glad he died?

Mama (the only quick, strong answer she gave): No.
I was guessing she wasn't glad. As far as the clapping, now that I think about it some more, the South was Democrat in those days, but they weren't the kind of Democrats who would have liked Kennedy. That's one of the reasons he ran with LBJ on the ticket.
I have heard stories like this before, for the life of me I'm not sure why they called.
Sad. That happened in my school, too. Republican and Protestant. The teacher repremanded us saying, "We support OUR President, and it is a horrible thing that he has been shot! It doesn't matter which party he belongs to. " I'm sorry about that. Very sorry, very sad. He did a lot...had a vision.
It is sad to see the hateful stuff in the Sixth Floor Museum in Dallas, letters sent to the editors of the two daily papers, letters they chose to print that are filled with lies, slander and hatred. Here's a handbill that was passed out in Dallas two days before he was murdered:

http://www.jfk.org/go/collections/item-detail?fedoraid=sfm:1999.023.0017

I was in the sixth grade in a Catholic school in So. Calif, the nuns there loved the president. Our nun collapsed when she was told. It was not on the PA, a page went to each room and whispered to the teacher.

I'm glad you wrote and posted this. People need to remember what hatred wrought, and what it continues to bring.

Thank you.
Wow. Having been in 8th grade, I couldn't imagine even having processed Republican/Democrat...just that the president had been shot. This was a powerful post. Yes, you should have posted it.
What a fascinating post. I was a little kid and only remember people crying. But I lived in the North...~r
wow...first hand accounts of historical events can be shocking. I believe it.

I remember being in a restuarant in the Black Hills shortly after 9/11 and something got folks riled up enough to stand and sing the national anthem with their hands over their hearts. Our table was the only one sitting and I thought that we may get our butts kicked b/c of it.

mob mentality is a scary thing....thanks for writing this.
Many, many children were happy when they heard Kennedy had been shot. Kennedy was as despised by conservatives as Obama is today. Many children did not comprehend the reality of the situation and only took in that someone their parents despised was now gone. Hell, I was one of them.
intriguing. I wonder how she felt. maybe they were all in a state of shock? interesting.
Grand post. One of the most interesting posts I've read in a long time.
Rated.
Just as you and all reality-based-people
know:
if Obama were slaughtered, some would celebrate.
Or: if they picked off a Bush on his water-craft off
Maine, others (not the same, certainly)
would smile a bit.

To be indoctrinated to hate to the point where we
can actually feel joy over another's brains
exploding over his wife's pretty dress
is inhuman
and yet: natural.
There IS a
moral issue here , but it's not South v. North.

Moral revulsion over another person's moral infancy
or regression
is a waste of energy...we all do it... when it becomes
a mass phenomenon, as it was in 63, it
is , in some sense, an indicator. Of how far we have gotten.