Debbs4

Debbs4
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I'd like to say a big THANKYOU to RicTeresa who made my great blog banner. He is an AWESOME talent and our very own creative artist here on OS. So, check out his amazing work, you'll be very glad you did!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i'm married to my first and only husband, Edo, of 32 years. we have 9 children (!), 6 boys, 3 girls, and, yes, i do know about birth control, thank you very much! i'm only on OS to share a little of what i know and to find out what you know, too. when i'm not around for awhile, it's 'cause i've gotten behind in my laundry and can be found folding hundreds of socks, but i'll come out of the dungeon and visit again, promise!

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OCTOBER 8, 2009 10:22AM

Rally for the Ranters! Yeah, a Shout Out to All OS'ers!

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 This little blog of kindness goes out to all my OS peoples but especially to the folks that like to rant and rave about all manner of things. You may not realize this, but peace loving folk such as myself actually take offense to these near-hateful blogs. I have really low blood pressure and it practically rises off the charts when I read one of these type writings. I try to stay away from them and I never comment on them because it affects me in such a negative way. However, I am here to say that the writers of the mean and nasty blog are loved. I understand what brings a person to this point of spite and am concerned for your health and quality of life. It's not good to get into and stay in a state of rage. It's so bad for the blood pressure and can even shorten your life and affect the relationships you have with those in your family and with your friends. Sure, you have people here that agree with you and encourage you to "tell it like it is", but, it is just not good and is not healthy. Think about it while you listen to ol' Satchmo. 

peace to you this day.

~Debbs4 

 

 

 

 

"I see trees of green........ red roses too

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I see em bloom..... for me and for you
And I think to myself.... what a wonderful world.

I see skies of blue..... clouds of white
Bright blessed days....dark sacred nights

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And I think to myself .....what a wonderful world.

The colors of a rainbow.....so pretty ..in the sky

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Are also on the faces.....of people ..going by
I see friends shaking hands.....sayin.. how do you do

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Theyre really sayin......i love you.

I hear babies cry...... I watch them grow

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Theyll learn much more.....than Ill never know
And I think to myself .....what a wonderful world

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(instrumental break)

The colors of a rainbow.....so pretty ..in the sky
Are there on the faces.....of people ..going by
I see friends shaking hands.....sayin.. how do you do
They're really sayin...(I ....love....you).

I hear babies cry...... I watch them grow
(you know their gonna learn
A whole lot more than Ill never know)
And I think to myself .....what a wonderful world

Yes I think to myself .......what a wonderful world."
 
 Yeah, isn't this what we want? Peace and love and getting along with one another.  It's what I desire and what alot of others want here in this community of OS. Think before you blog, think before you react.
I would like to challenge the peaceable amongst us to write kind remarks to others blogs, but especially to the ranters, they need it!, we all do! Remember, it'll do your blood pressure alot of good and you just might live longer and enjoy life more!
 
 

 

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I love Sachmo! Yea, I gave up on the ranting. Being a liberal and ranting isn't productive at all. Peace and love for all.
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Thanks, Micalpeace. Love to you to this fine day!
Very nice, but I'll stick to ranting, thank you. Live Hard, Blog Fast and Leave behind and unrecognizable corpse.....so the cats can't ressurect you for their off world museum. Rated for peaceful hippy thoughts.
I see your point and agree to a certain degree. On the other hand, it is more healthy to "let it out" than to keep emotions locked inside of us. What better place to rant than OS where we can remain anonymous? Writing is one of the best outlets for our pent up feelings and emotions. Posting or journaling should be encouraged rather than discouraged, but I appreciate your thoughtfulness.
Ranting with a touch of humor, or humor with a touch of ranting, can get people giggling over coffee. That's probably a good thing.
Debb, I love politics, and the spirited argument that sometimes goes with it. But, when people start getting out of the way, or name calling, like John is going through now, I go silent. Theres a lot of difference between a good debate and bad manners. I also do other things and go to other sites, like this one, it was great and I love me some Sachmo!!
Ranting and meanness are a pathetic combination. A good argument without the diatribe can be informative. ~R~
While the spirit of this is a good one, just because you find something offensive doesn't mean anyone else does. You really shouldn't dictate what people can and cannot write about to suit what you need or want.
Thank you all for your thoughtful comments! I guess I got the right people to read my blog, hope it sinks in what is really being said here. :)
I agree not to agree with anything that will not agree with anything else anyone is agreeing upon. Therefore your post may be agreeable to some but some will always disagree. In case you didn't know that was giving you my "What For" rant. My lovely wife told me to not rant anymore at her because it could be hazardous to my health. But like you I pass up those post I know that do, and prefer the more informative and wonderful post like yours. As always my best to you and your family. ( did your recipe last night myself, delicious, 5-star, and great, thank you ). Your Friend Older/Exasperated
Awwwww. Kindness, peace and Sachmo... doesn't get any better than that. :)
Tired of rants I am, yes!
Apparently there's a kerfuffle going on again? Whew. Looks like I've missed it. But love Satchmo anyway.
O/E, you are the greatest! and, thankfully I say thanks to you for understandingly commenting on my commentable post, you are the dearest of dears. Glad your sweetest of sweet wives made the recipe!
Safebet, Verbal Remedy and AtHomePilgrim,
Thanks for stopping by!
Hear, here!

Lovingkindness is the thing. Be fierce with your thinking, not with each other. Say, it, and peacefully withdraw.

Vitriol and self-righteous rage are ALWAYS indicators that you should check yourself.

If you feel self-satisfied with your rage and correctness, you did something wrong.

We are monkeys hooting at shadows across the ravine, fearful at the imagined loss of the troop's banana tree.

When things are this bad? it's time to be even more precise with our anger, to allow for those struggling for balance, our Right ones, even those Wrong ones.

Flinging poo is natural to us. Talking, reasoning, takes skill, and is hard work. Flingers take the easy way, while swelling their chests with imaginary Glory.

I know. I've done it, too often, I know how good it feels to pull out the straight razor phrase, and know how hard it is to stop.

But what use are words if they don't serve us, if they don't ease suffering?
Greg, so good! You get the point of this post. It is better to be kind than to be right when in dispute, better to say nothing at all, sometimes. There is a time and place for the choice word, but it doesn't have to bring us or others down in their spirit.
Thanks!
I enjoy an insightful or humorous rant, so long as it is not mean spirited. It’s important that we not take ourselves too seriously, and be able to laugh at the folly and foible of human nature.

The blistering attacks I have sometimes found in the comment threads are another matter altogether. I have always been taught that even in disagreement, one should be respectful. Then again, that’s what works for me.

Hopefully those who would benefit most from your thoughtful words of wisdom will read and take heed.
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the children of God.

I don't rant, rarely read the ranters and never comment. That's my contribution to peace on OS.

Pax tecum... peace be with you.
Thanks for the peace and good comments, CarolinaBlue50 and SpinDoctor. Enjoy your day!
Love the song...love the pictures...love your concern.
how about if i rant with a smile?
Don't make me play nice. It won't be pretty. :)
Capn PH and I am Surly,
Fine with me, just keep it nice like I know you can if you try! :)
Enjoyed your blog! You are truly a lovely soul, Debbs4! :0) You need to be cloned!
Thank you, Reiko, and the same back to you!
:)
I agree with you, Deb, there is enough bad and angry going around and so who needs to see or hear what may raise our blood pressure.
You Dreamer !!!!
I love it though.
hey, i can dream, you're right! :)
Dreams are often how a better world starts....so keep it up my friend......keep it up. : )
I call myself the ranting boomer, but I don't rant. I'm an introvert, so when I write, I feel like I'm ranting. Hence the low post count. I'm okay with good ranting - like trying to champion a good cause. Mean ranting is bad karma. I'm allergic to bad karma.
Me, too, Ranting Boomer. ACHOO!
Rant with some jest and you might get someone to listen. In fact, you just posted something of a rant with some jest that is saying you can't stand out of control rants. This is the forum for free expression if it does not border on danger or true ugliness and it is probably good for the ranters to rant on the page and release. One might even argue that it is healthy, and sometimes purpose can be served from a rational rant. Fortunately, we can choose not reading irrational rants and your plea is a good one -- for peace and harmony 'mongst our fellow travelers on the page. Peace and love to you Debs4
Gal80,
I know, I have been thinking that this post of mine is actually a type of rant. But the kind I'm talking about, as you know, is the mean kind. There's no need for name calling, etc.
You are a sweetheart and an encouragement to me!
Thanks!
.................... "the greatest is love" (1Cor 13)

Thamks for these words, so true.
Forgot to add rated before. Error now corrected. RATED!!!!
I'm a big fan of peace and playing nice.
A very good post. I quite agree with the sentiment you've expressed.
Peace and love, both beautiful thoughts!!!

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Unfortunately, life isn't all rainbows and wanted puppy dogs for the majority of the people in the world, particularly in the Third World. That doesn't mean there has to be a constant focus on the negative, but to deny its existence is to deny solutions to problems. People with strong convictions often provoke strong reactions. I've never been one for muzzling opinions, even if I disagree with some of them.
Ms Debbs: I understand your disdain for the rant's. I used to join in with them and I was "King Ranter" for many years. But no more ... I'm simply tired of it. I weary of the noise. There is simply too much of it, on both sides of the issues.

Methinks you're doing the Lord's work ... keep it up!

WS
Thanks, for the comments, Emma. I do agree that there is much to be done to help those in need. Much to be done, but not just sitting around complaining about it while calling fellow humans demeaning names. That is what I am after, peaceableness with others so we can work on what is important, helping the downcast and poor.
WS, I appreciate your encouraging comments. That is what I want to be about, doing the Lord's work~
Nope, Kyle, I just glanced over most of your posts and they look kind and generous to me. You even had a post saying that you wouldn't be doing any rant posts anymore, that they were too mean and brought out the worst in people, or something to that effect. I see you as being fair, with a strong opinion of what is right and wrong with our world. That is great! My blog here is about not attacking people, or demeaning them by name calling,but instead trying to listen to one another, even if we think they are wrong. It's about concern for others and loving them, unconditionally. That's alot, I know it is. But, can you see what it would do to our own little world if we had that attitude? So, I say, start here, in this little world of OS by being kind. That's all I'm saying.
Constructive discussion builds others up ... destructive discussion tears them down ... I think it is clear which one the world needs right now.

A problem arises when evil people want to destroy and lack respect for the rights of others. Hitler could have been stopped with relatively little cost in 1933-1936. Because of no action then millions of lives were lost in WW2

Similar problems exist in the world today and just as we neglected the problems in Germany then, so we neglect other problems in the world today at our peril.

The fear of action then was caused in part by the memory of WW1 and a desire not to repeat those years. By fearing to act a worse problem emerged. So appeasement in the face of evil has its own dangers. Doing nothing in the face of evil is a serious issue.

"All that is needed for evil to succeed is for good men and women to see it and do nothing"

The problem is defining what is truly evil and acting on it appropriately. Even better is preventing evil rather than dealing with it. We fight wars because we fail to win the peace.

The spirit of peace is an undoubted good. The means of achieving it begins with removing our head from the sand and waging a war on poverty. This is the one war worth winning more than any other. It can be won without casualties ... in fact it is won by bringing better lives to people in the form of clean water, essential food and mediciine ... and productive work.

Winning the peace is the key to avoiding war.

At the personal level my late brother-in-law said he tried to leave each conversation making the other person feeling at least a little better, if not a lot better

What a great aim that is ... and the post to which I am replying is an excellent example of exactly that

Blessings and Peace

Friar Hilarius
Thank you, Friar Hilarius, I do appreciate your good comments and thank you for your encouragement to live peaceably with all those that we can.
peace and grace to you,
Debbs
Thank you Debbs4 ! I agree wholeheartedly - what a wonderful world!
Oh I love this song! why is it so hard to be nice I wonder? Thanks for the wonderful interlude.
Wonderful post! You are so right about the vitriol which has lately spilled out on here... I agree with Patricia K that things need to be expressed lest they build inside, but maybe a read-through before we punch that "publish" button? We're all such sensitive souls on here...
May peace always be in you life,,, all your days and all your nights.

Just Believe, Step forward and let gravity do the rest.