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Cleo C

Cleo C
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Atlanta, Georgia, USA
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September 23
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Cleo is a poet and writer from Atlanta Georgia.

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JULY 2, 2009 8:56AM

Stonewall at 40: The Right to Get Drunk in a Gay Bar

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On the 40th anniversary of Stonewall we were faced with what seems to be a rather questionable raid on a gay bar in Ft. Worth. The police say they were just answering complaints, others say it was just good-ole-boy homophobia. The details of the police raid keep coming out. One of the latest developments is that officers are now basically citing the tired old gay panic defense, saying that patrons hit on them, and therefore got what they deserved. Tragically one patron that was roughly thrown to the ground and had his head bashed against some concrete steps is still in ICU with brain injuries. This story won’t go away soon, coming on the Stonewall anniversary it’s going to become a test case for just how far we’ve come, or not, on gay rights.

 

Now Stonewall is about a lot of things, and sparked a whole civil rights movement. However, revolutions sometimes start with simple little things. Rosa Parks started a revolution cause she was just too damn tired from a long hard day of work to have to put up with any crap. Likewise the drag queens and street hustlers at Stonewall just wanted to be able to meet with friends, have some fun and have a few cocktails, they just got tired of being punching bags easy marks for the cops.

 

At it’s core though Stonewall was about the right to socialize and be around other gay people, or at some level just to get drunk in a gay bar. That may sound like a frivolous excuse, but it’s actually not a small thing. Gay bars for decades were very secretive back alley affairs, where patrons were always looking over their shoulders for the inevitable police raids. The whole routine only adding to the shame and prejudice they were already feeling. Gay bars after Stonewall would be rallying points and safe havens for gays and lesbians for decades to come, and even today serve those same functions. We've also been able to move on to political action groups, lobbying groups, social groups, even bowling leagues. Today, most people take gay bars for granted, but when you really think about it, it’s no small thing. We are able to meet with friends, socialize, meet new people – without the fear of the police coming in the door at any moment. You would think after 40 years we’d have gotten past the era of bar shake downs and raids targeting homosexuals. Apparently in Ft. Worth we aren’t there yet.

 

Lafittes  

 

Above: here I am recently celebrating my right to get drunk in a gay bar. Lafitte’s on Bourbon Street, in New Orleans, it was the Saints and Sinners literary festival. I was with a bunch of other writers and poets (poets are always trouble). As you can see I’m pretty smashed, when I’m smoking a cigar that’s always a bad sign. But I was with a bunch of friends, celebrating some new publications, enjoying meeting some new friends, and certainly able to walk home. At no time did I ever worry that the police might come in and twist-tie my wrists and throw me to the ground. Apparently some police officials in Texas would like to instill that fear back into some people.

 

 

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Wow. I hadn't heard about the Ft. Worth raid. Being from Texas, it makes me doubly sad. I was raised up in gay bars. I remember going with my gay boyfriends to gay bars in the 70's & the anticipation of raid was always in the air. I was at one raid, when luckily there was no physical harm (only psychological, right?) at the Copa one night in Houston. It was also at the gay bars that punk/new wave music found a home outside of the very few little bars that played it. Clubs like the Parade and Numbers had "new wave nights" when the city's "other freaks" joined forces with the "gay freaks" to celebrate difference. Later, I have gone for the freedom to dance and drink and be with my friends and be left alone. I have never taken for granted the haven for my gay friends to be able to be at peace . It sickens me that my fellow Texans have not learned in all of these years what tolerance is and how difference makes the world go round. Of course, we live in a country that brings gay marriage up as a political issue...... Clearly, the work is not yet done.
I'm sorry to hear this. I was born in Fort Worth and grew up there. Fort Worth is a great town with lots of wonderful people. Unfortunately, it takes just a few to leave an indelible stain. Thanks for the post.
Texas is not always this backwards, folks. Just Fort Worth, for the most part. It was the only Texas urban area not to go blue in 2008. Dallas' Oak Lawn, All of Austin, and Houston's Montrose are gay meccas. San Antonio boasts Randy's Rodeo. That my friends, defines gay bar. Anyway, I grew up near Fort Worth, so thanks for posting this. Yes, North Texas has a "dry" culture. But the rest of the state drinks like fiends. It's why we lead the nation in drunk driving!! I hope Fort Worth shows its good side and corrects this injustice. Cheers again for for the post!!
Here is a an update from the Fort Worth Star-Telegram: http://startelegram.typepad.com/crime_time/2009/07/injured-mans-condition-upgraded-chief-defends-officers.html

Apparently, the injured man was in the custody of Tex. Alcoholic Beverage Commission agents, or so says FW PD Chief. BTW, love the 'stash on the Chief of Police. YMCA!!!!
And this link pretty much gives all the details. FW is in turmoil over this incident. http://www.star-telegram.com/804/story/1463260.html
Cheers again for the post.. joe
Thank you for the post--I'm appalled at the treatment of homosexuals in general, frankly. But isn't the "he hit on me" defense SO overdone? Honestly, some men in particular seem to think that if a woman speaks to them, well then she's hitting on them...wonder if he's thinking the same about gay men? Just a thought.
The police in Texas are making the news consistently with stories of abuse. The law lets them steal and intimidate at will with the ability to seize your belongings and even your children (I'm referring to the small town Texas cops threatening to steal children unless paid a fine featured on CNN recently). Maybe this bar that was raided failed to pay for police protection and was targeted for a raid. I would bet my retirement funds (gone to the stock market predations) that the police are running multiple criminal enterprises and prey upon the population far more than they assist people. Brutal homophobes milking tax dollars and enslaving people to the corporate prison system. Go watch Serpico the movie about how the police really operate.
C- nice head shot in the Big slEasy.

I would bet good money each and every one of those Po-leece (men?) describes himself a christian. Fascinating, as John McCain would say.

My first trips to the former confederate states scared the fucking hell out of me as a child. I could instantly sense the hate towards us "different" people, and the danger. Step on the gas and lets get the hell out of here was my first, and still is, reaction.

DFW is supposed to be a major America City! What a joke these red state RepuKeKKKans are, and a disgrace.

And, of course, what many would like to do in their private time is squeal like a pig themselves- then beg for forgiveness- they couldn't have descended from apes, as monkeys would never stoop this low.

Red State Hate -- the "heart"land of America!
TX seems to be a breeding ground for assholes. And assholes always gravitate to police work for some inexplicable reasons.
i was born in fort worth. i'm totally ashamed of all this. when my husband and i moved to california, we were stopped by a state trooper for some small infraction. when he learned where we were heading and why, he asked "what the hell would you do a fool thing like that fer?"

the right to free association is beyond some folks.
You do look shit-faced! I'll give you that. Nice post too.
Steve and bstrangely, let's meet at Uncle Julio's on Camp Bowie--we'll blend sooo much better there! Thanks for posting this, Cleo! I've been sending Dan Savage's article (granted, now probably dated; I do have to teach/work occasionally)

http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/archives/2009/06/30/fort-worth-police-chief-that-faggot-had-it-coming

to everyone I can think of with "inside" connections--Kay Granger, the former mayor, now Congress rep (also my former journo teacher; she went Repub, so shhhh....) and a former lover in DC whose father used to work for FWPD (OK, so that's all I got).

It's easy to make fun of Cowtown, but, like Steve, I actually found it a quaint little town growing up. Of course, once I discovered the gay bars in Dallas at 16, well, I had to do a lot of very conscientious drinking and driving! Ex-lover above called the only women's bar in FW, "The Kennel" (vicious bitchy queen, she was).

I had no idea FW was dryer than most, JoeinAustin, but I know there's a long dry spell somewhere between FW and Waco (or Crawford, if you prefer) where you had better have stocked up in case of a car breakdown! Damn, just the thought causes a powerful thirst! And then there was the teeny-tiny detail of my mother always having to buy her rum in FW (on the way home from visiting my woman of the church, but sweet about it, father's mother) because her suburb only sells beer and wine (to this day!).

As I sit here with beer vending machines on every street corner in Japan (thanks to those World Health Organization meanies, you have to have an of age ID card for cig machines, but beer and Nihonshu still flow freely; we rely on grannies catching teens for the shame), the mind boggles.

Oh, but this is about bashing queers, isn't it? Sorry, so many issues, so little time. Will look up your links, Joe. Thanks, y'all, and here's to Kathy Matea and George Strait for putting Ft. Worth in their songs with nary a gay-bashing or drinkless lament. Here's Kathy's lyrics, just for pickin' and grins:
http://www.cmt.com/lyrics/kathy-mattea/she-came-from-fort-worth/623753/lyrics.jhtml
When I was in TX I told my wife, "These women did things with my Mr. Wiffle fishing lures that I'm sure would be considered illegal in at least 36 States. As to my right to get drunk in any bar...heck yes anyone should have the right....even us poets. By the way say "Hello" to my friend John Goodman, he likes to fish...but leave little room in the boat for anything you catch.