ASKaPUNK

ASKaPUNK
Location
Los Angeles, California, United States of America
Birthday
November 14
Bio
I currently live in southern California, but I grew up in the sleepy hinterlands of Western Massachusetts where I was one of the few punk rockers in a small town in the early '80s. After "escaping" to Boston in my 20's, I later jumped across the continent to California. My punk bands were as numerous as they were awful & forgettable, but the concepts of self-sufficiency, DIY, and living within (or below) one's means took hold and have never let go. Over the years (or eeks - decades) you may have seen me in the mosh pit in any of the following places: Boston, Buffalo, Chicago, Las Vegas, New York, the Raleigh-Durham-Asheville triangle, New Orleans, Phoenix, San Francisco, St. Louis, and innumerable small towns in between, or, most recently Dublin, Ireland.

MY RECENT POSTS

APRIL 29, 2011 2:01PM

Rave New World

Dear AAP=
This is a question I thought I would know the answer to since I've been thinking about it for so long. I'm a mother of a 14 year old girl who is at the point of wanting to go out and "explore" the same sort of things… Read full post »
APRIL 26, 2011 9:55PM

To Be or Not to Beat.

dear aap-
I haven't been playing or writing songs for long. what if I want to write a song and use my own music but someone else's words, like old poems and stuff. Is that legal? - Cut and Paster


Dear CaP-
I find this to be an interesting question…

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APRIL 25, 2011 3:43PM

The Wide Man's Burden.

Dear AAP-
You've answered a couple questions now about how important it is or isn't for a band to worry about its "look" and all of that and you've talked about how you go about throwing a member out of a band AND you have even talked about… Read full post »
Dear aap-
What's your take on bands wearing any kind of uniforms matching clothes and stuff? The band I want to join says that when we start playing out we'll all have to dress a certain way. I think that is automatically lame. What do you think? - NoRead full post »
APRIL 20, 2011 4:49PM

The Low-down on the Low End.

Dear AAP=
We've got a band together but no one wants to play bass. How do you decide or pick or tell someone that they have to play bass if they want to stay in the band? - six strings.

Dear SS-
A common problem. Anecdotes abound about people who…

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Hello patient readers. I have straightened out my computer & internet access issues and will now continue to get caught up with my backlog of AAP posts. If you're impatient, you can always go directly to the Ask A Punk website, but otherwise, I'll be reposting here daily until I'm all… Read full post »

APRIL 5, 2011 6:22PM

Cursed Interwebs.

IF anyone cares, my apologies. I have been caught in another computer/internet-access/time-management vortex and have been unable to post here... just when I was finally getting caught up!

 Hope to have things straightened out soon. Read full post »

 The"Great Catch-up" is nearly finished... I was delayed for a few days because I couldn't sign in to my OS account... did anyone else have this trouble?  

Dear aap:
I'm 17 and have been into punk since I was 13. I love it, and now that me and my 2
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MARCH 11, 2011 1:00PM

Rhymes with "Funky Drummer"

Dear Ask A Punk:
...so our drummer is totally rad. can pelt out awesome beats and solos and may be more of an icon than our guitarist. But we all promised no matter what, under all circumstances, for any and every reason/
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MARCH 10, 2011 2:44PM

(no) Money For Nothing

Dear Ask A Punk-
Seems like unless you're Lady GaGa or an 11 year old boy with fucked up hair, you can't make a living playing music anymore. My band has been together for seven years, we've put out a couple of EPs, we've got all the onlineRead full post »

The great 'Catch-up' is almost finished. Today's post was originally posted on the Ask A Punk website back on February 9th. It is a direct response to the previous post...

 

dear ask a punk-

I read you new post just now and itis bullshit. Why are you always tellingRead full post »
Dear aap -
I have decided to quit doing drugs. I have been doing a lot of them and I know it is stupid and know it has gotten out of hand. Booze and weed sure but some semi-heavy stuff too. I'm smarter than this and it isRead full post »
MARCH 3, 2011 12:21PM

Crazy Bubblegum

Dear aap

 

My kids like bubblegum music, miley, lovato, osmnet, jonas etc…It is driving me crazy !!! My son (age 7 & daughter age 11 think I’m from the middle ages…) I told my daughter , these people will Not be a factor in 10 years,Read full post »

Dear AAP=
My band gets along fairly well. No one is a douche and we're all kind of on the same page style-wise and musicanship-wise. Now that we've been together for a couple years though we're having one problem over and over again - too many songs. EVERYoneRead full post »
MARCH 1, 2011 2:32PM

See If You Can Detect The Theme...

Greetings all. A rare embarrassment of riches this week as I got several questions/emails instead of the usual trickle, but in a case of bad timing I find myself in the midst of some personal, logistical and miscellaneous shall we say "issues" ...so I don't have a… Read full post »

FEBRUARY 28, 2011 5:15PM

The Revolution will not be Digitized.

Dear AAP-
I use a computer, obviously since I'm writing to you here. I'm no the web every day like everyone else - for news, email, work, research, killing time whatever. I'm saying I get it , but I'm still concerned when I see my kids and theirRead full post »
FEBRUARY 26, 2011 7:10PM

The Best Band in Town.

Dear Ask A Punk -
I live in a small town and my band is great. I'm sick of everyone who thinks the only way to be a great band is to move to some big city, find the 'cool' neighborhood and then live like a cockroach while you… Read full post »
FEBRUARY 25, 2011 7:33PM

Resolutions and Revolutions

Dear AAP-
Is there any non-lame way to make a new year's resolution? or maybe make a bunch of them. I know I have to change some things around in my life and it seems like the right time to do it. I just don't want to make a… Read full post »
FEBRUARY 24, 2011 4:12PM

Season's Gratings

The Great Catch-up Continues...

Dear As A Punk-
Like seemingly everyone else, I'm not looking forward to going home for the holidays. My family isn't a complete horror story like some of the people who write in, but at best it is a tense and not enjoyable experience for
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FEBRUARY 23, 2011 2:16PM

Another Victim of the Recession

And so the great "getting caught up" begins. This post appreared on the AAP website back on December 15th, so that will give you some idea of how far behind I am. I'm going to try to put up a post every day until we're up-to-date.

 

Dear aap-
Best way
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FEBRUARY 21, 2011 5:29PM

Ask A Punk is back online.

Yow. I don't know if any of my OS friends/readers even noticed, but I haven't posted an Ask A Punk column in here for several weeks. The reasons were many and mostly mundane: I had to pack up my apartment and move across town. I then had some computer problems (probably… Read full post »

DECEMBER 8, 2010 3:28PM

A New Zip Code = Good for the Soul.

DEAR AAP-
I know 2010 has been a tough year for a lot of people. It was for me too. I lost a job. Quit another job. Broke up with my boyfriend. Quit my band and moved... twice.. The second time to a different city. So now I'm inRead full post »
DECEMBER 1, 2010 1:45PM

The Show Must Groan On

Dear AAP-
My band has been playing together for eight or nine years. I could find the exact date of the 1st gig, but it is very late and I'm too tired to go digging around for it. The point is I feel like I'm getting fed upRead full post »
NOVEMBER 23, 2010 11:32PM

Gobble Gobble Hey !

Dear ask a punk-
Next week is Thanksgiving. Unlike seemingly everyone else I know, I'm looking forward to it. Given all the dysfunction I see in my friend's families and all, it feels almost weird to admit that I like my family. I moved 4 hours away from them… Read full post »
NOVEMBER 17, 2010 3:44PM

Art isn't Pretty

Dear ask a punk-
I disagreed with your advice a few weeks ago to the woman musician & writer who felt like giving up. I would have told her that, if she feels that way, she should give up, and I'm not saying that to be a jerk. I/
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