THE HANNAROSE DIARIES

“In life we all have an unspeakable secret"

Ande Bliss

Ande Bliss
Location
New Hampshire,
Birthday
November 04
Title
Writer
Bio
Essays, poetry, opinion and short stories. Free lance on line and in print. Favorite quote: "In life we all have an unspeakable secret, and irreversible regret, an unreachable dream, and an unforgettable love.” ― Diego Marchi Personal Website: AnneWrites.com

MY RECENT POSTS

Ande Bliss's Links

Salon.com
Editor’s Pick
APRIL 22, 2013 5:04PM

A Thousand Small Deaths.

As many of you know, my husband was diagnosed with Alzheimers disease in February.

Bradenton FL. April 22, 2013

It is just past 7 AM. My husband is still sleeping and I am pleased to have some alone time. The sky is layered and changing by the second. Ivory… Read full post »

MARCH 4, 2013 6:29PM

123, Gone

Dear Friends,

I have decided to remove my last post  Too Soon, One, Two, Three. I do appreciate all of your kind words and thank you for your support and prayers. 

 

 Ande

 

 

 

 

 

 

  Read full post »

JANUARY 22, 2013 12:41PM

The Bundle

Mary is 89.

Joe is 92.

 

They just got on line

Mary says they ‘got the bundle’

 

She used to own a business.

Was a model.

Looks like a Gabor sister.

 

He is a handsome man

With… Read full post »

JANUARY 17, 2013 6:58PM

Too Soon

Over the past few years I have noticed subtle changes in my husband's memory, his lack of joie de vivre and ability to learn new skills. There is an absence of desire to travel, to discover and to participate. (He is a five years my senior) We have attributed someRead full post »
DECEMBER 15, 2012 3:08PM

THE DEVIL DANCED ON DECEMBER 14TH 2012

NOVEMBER 21, 2012 5:27PM

Mashed Potatoes and Thanksgiving Wishes

 

“It was Thanksgiving Day and I had a pile of dirty spuds to wash and peel for the waiting stock pot. I followed my mother’s admonishment, making sure to remove all the ‘eyes’ while taking only a thin layer of the skin. My mother reminded
Read full post »
OCTOBER 29, 2012 9:47AM

The Power of Nature

There are great events which bring us together no matter our politics or opinion. Maybe we need an interruption in the day to day to understand how truly frail we are. Bravado and opinion get lost in the wind.

I have two friends who might lose their homes today or… Read full post »

OCTOBER 26, 2012 11:48AM

"THESE ARE A FEW OF MY FAVORITE THINGS"

  13980068_s

 We all have favorite things. Some are new and some go way back to our childhood. Maybe we don’t even have them anymore, but we have such vivid memories that we can recall every detail. The less we had, the more we treasured the fewRead full post »

OCTOBER 22, 2012 1:33PM

No Easy Way To Get There.

 FOREWORD: 

Marshall and I were born in the 1930s. We were children during WWII. We went to college and married in the late 50s and 60s. Our parents exemplified the white middle class in suburban Massachusetts. They were Protestant, we were Jewish. We both lived frugally in modest homes. WRead full post »

images-4*
 
THE LIBRARY
 
 
  This is an updated version of an essay that was written a couple of years ago.  Please add more stacks. Make it your own.
 
 

“I… Read full post »

OCTOBER 15, 2012 3:40PM

Gotta Cold. Gotta See The Doctor.

 

8057356_s 

 

It’s the time of year

 For coughs and colds

I’m sneezing and dripping

 while feeling quite old.

 

I cough and I hack

Using boxes of Puffs

My baskets are filled

With tissues and… Read full post »

OCTOBER 7, 2012 12:34PM

RESIDENT ARTIST

Depositphotos_1139865_xs  *

My mother lived to be 97 years old. She was an artist. Her favorite medium was pastel chalk. I have referenced her work in a f ew other posts entitled  Black Eyed Susans and Like Bea. The last few years of her life/

Read full post »
OCTOBER 1, 2012 4:27PM

Deedee would have been 46 today.

 

For Deedee: My beloved daughter. Dead now 16 years.

Longfellow's Children's Hour:

Between the dark and the daylight,
When the night is beginning to lower,
Comes a pause in the day's occupations,
That is known as the Children's Hour.

I hear in the chamber above me
The patter of

Read full post »
SEPTEMBER 25, 2012 6:49PM

I Apologize. Please forgive me.

 Tonight is the evening before Yom Kippur, the Jewish Day of Atonement. There is a service this evening which features the mournful music of  Kol Nidre. I will not be there. I will light four memorial candles say Kaddish for my family members who have passed, have dinner and read. Tomorrow… Read full post »

SEPTEMBER 24, 2012 9:16AM

October in Two Parts

dreamstime_xs_11923325*
 
As my husband and I plan for our annual migration south, we inhale the beauty of Autumn in New England. We buy apples and mums and fresh cider. We place a pumpkin on the front steps and we sit on the deck in
Read full post »
SEPTEMBER 13, 2012 4:45PM

Your Peace or Mine

2942805_s*
Peace On Earth Good Will Toward Men.

We live in a world, which is at war. It started a long time ago continuing with innocuous names like skirmishes, incursions and storms.  We are numbed by it. Perhaps we have accepted the fact that peace is… Read full post »

This is a re-post of a story that I wrote 10 years ago.Thanks for reading it again or for the first time. We all have our own memories about 9/11/01. This is mine. 

September 11th is our wedding anniversary. We enjoy taking a trip

Read full post »
SEPTEMBER 3, 2012 6:11PM

Nutty Old Woman Talking to Herself

 
get-attachment
NUTTY OLD LADY 
 
A Nutty old woman has moved into my home. She was not invited. She just showed up one day and I can't get rid of her. 
 
She falls downstairs and trips going up stairs. She talks to herself. Swears a… Read full post »
AUGUST 31, 2012 1:00PM

Hurricane Donna Followed Me Home.

donna_1960_thumbnail *

I married my first husband 52 years ago. I was twenty and he was twenty-five. The wedding was simple by today’s standards. But the honeymoon plans were grand. 

August 28th, 1960

Our first night was spent in NYC. Neither of… Read full post »

 

11113051_s

My only daughter, Deedee, died at age 30. I have written about her many times on OS. And so this is not a reiteration. 

Anyway, she had this old pillow...I mean she had it for her entire life. From her firstRead full post »

9225084-toilet-sign-and-direction
 
  Imagine that you've been on the road for hours and you have to 'go'. You enter a public restroom only to find that you need a quarter in order to open the stall door. This might invite rage or worse. There is an option. Use the VERY public/…

Read full post »

AUGUST 16, 2012 10:33AM

First Car On The Road

images-1*  

1939 Dodge Sedan

My Dad:

Brookline MA /1943 -44 or thereabouts. 

“I am setting the alarm clock for 5 O’clock. Everyone needs to be packed and ready tonight. I want to be the first one on the road. So no dawdling. Anne. YouRead full post »

It's been pretty hard to find something to post these days. Hard because of the anger and the uncertainty of the landscape here. Who is hiding and who is real. All the stuff about rules...cut and paste...comments, thank you notes, rates and notifications. "Its the custom here...." etc. 

There ar… Read full post »

AUGUST 6, 2012 4:05PM

4th gallery challenge: Tree Thoughts

   images-16*

  

A PLACE OF ONE'S OWN

Imagine the tree that you climbed as a child

Where you sat and surveyed your world.

It may have been the very first place you

Found privacy… Read full post »

AUGUST 2, 2012 9:24AM

ABOVE THE FOLD

6781572_s *

What ever happened to the victims of the Tsunami? Were they all accounted for?  And how about the citizens of New Orleans and the Mississippi Gulf? Did they return or did they simply move away? Do we know what happened to the people of/… Read full post »